Do you ‘defriend’ in your real life?
Sometimes toxic friendships are more detrimental than a bad dating situation, especially since some friends just won’t go away. You don’t want to live your life catering to someone who brings you down or influences you in a negative way.
Have you ever had to “break-up” with a friend? How did you do it and why?
accio_anthem on Friday, July 20, 2012 at 5:52 pm
Yeah, I’ve had to several times. I usually just stop hanging out with them. The most recent time it was easy because we had no classes together and weren’t in the same clubs, so I just let us drift apart.
broken-heart17 on Friday, July 20, 2012 at 10:05 am
Ive never really had to defriend them. I just dont hang out with them really. && if they try to get me to do things or go places I simply say no. Simple.
ClaRitz on Friday, July 20, 2012 at 1:34 am
Yeah , we werent into thee same things . He was leading down a narrow path and wanted to drag meh with him . So ijust said fcck off . Simple
babypeach2011 on Friday, July 20, 2012 at 12:24 am
Can’t say I had to defriend anyone I’m just not as close to my “dumb” friends then Im with the rest of my friends lol
Memoryy on Thursday, July 19, 2012 at 10:10 pm
Hell yeah I had one with my friend amy, it went bad, I couldn’t walk bcuz of my back spasms that day but I went like a boss and cursed her and her bf out mad hard. N I told her if she ever does some other slick ass **** to me I will play my trump card which was a pic of her cheating on her man with a girl. X3 then we got over it and became cool again, we still don’t trust each other that much tho.
Stay-Gold on Thursday, July 19, 2012 at 7:47 pm
I don’t break up with them, I just cut off contact with them.
Doesn’t require drama though, 99.9% of the people I cut out of my life are because they just never grew up and have no ambition to do anything with their lives.
It gets annoying to be around.
notUrAverageAngel on Thursday, July 19, 2012 at 7:09 pm
yea lots of times but theyre just like friends for a short period but its hard to unfriend a long time friend…
evesdarkwings133 on Thursday, July 19, 2012 at 6:51 pm
I think everyone has a friend they would like to “defriend” but can’t. I’ve only “defriend” when drama happens.
mcswaggerr on Thursday, July 19, 2012 at 5:34 pm
Defriend? Really? I believe the proper term would be “un-friend.”
purplemidnight on Thursday, July 19, 2012 at 4:32 pm
I’ve had to do it a few times