Are you old-fashioned?
It may seem like a strange question in this day and age, but I feel like a lot of people do have old-fashioned views on the world…and I don’t think that’s a bad thing. Lots of people like the concept of chivalry and want guys hold open doors or pay for a date. Other people have thoughts about how a family should be or how hard they want to work.
Do you have any views that could be considered “old-fashioned?” What are they?
ohsokutiekatelin on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 9:39 pm
yes & no. i dont think i think old fashioned but i like old fashioned things
SappyLovesRaven on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 8:32 pm
I was raised old fashioned. Still am being raised that way. I freakin hate it. While I love the morals, respect, ect. I hate the constant hatred of new things. Because of my dad being stuck in 1960, my most prized relationship was trashed when my dad broke my cell phone over a chat group I was on. He hates the internet, and he is hesitant when he says that since I’m 16 I’m almost old enough to date. Because of him I’ve never been kissed, lost a very important person, I’ve never had/hosted any social gathering (birthday party, sleepover, ect) he screens my music, any movies over PG must have his approval, I’ve never had friends over because they’re never good enough, wether their mom is a whore or their dads a preacher, I’m not allowed on any social media if I add people I don’t know. He has kept me out of sex ed. Any and all dates until 18 will be monitored. He hesitated when I watched Breaking Dawn, and refused to watch it with me. Old fashioned SUCKS.
Memoryy on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 6:29 pm
Committement in a relationship. Unlike most of yah hoes.
AlexisJoy on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 3:50 pm
A guy should be a gentalman. Pay for the date, and hold doors. Push the girl in the chair. Things like that. People should dress up for church, and look nice. Remain a virgin until marriage.
karaishyper on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 3:23 pm
Yes i am
Too much per pressure on teenagers to be like everyone else today
I like guys being a gentleman its sweet
HotPinkSunglasses on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 10:43 am
Yeah I suppose I am old fashioned.
I dont drink, smoke, or get high, I respect myself & I like when guys act like gentlemen.
Not only is this the way I’ve been raised, but I’ve formed my own views….I’m a lady and I plan on ACTING like one (:
Too much pressure is put on teenagers these days…Your EXPECTED to do all those things, lose your virginity by 16, etc.
I like being old fashioned but its kinda hard sometimes these days =P
broken-heart17 on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 9:40 am
Yeah…i was raised believing in the old fashioned way. Pre-marital sex, chivalry, self respect and all that. Sometimes I wish things were like they used to be. It would be easier to be old fashioned than it is nowadays. So much pressure is influenced on teenagers. If you’re still a virgin, haven’t drank, gotten high, and you’re okay with it then apparently something is “wrong” with you-_-
I dont believe that.
CuriosityCat on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 9:20 am
I grew up with my Grandparents, so I got a very old set of values, morals and ideas taught to me. In a sense, yes, I am old fashioned. I love to dress old fashioned and believe that there is promise in the past that we have carelessly discarded.
Although, I think that “old fashioned” should just apply to how guys treat girls. What about other values, like a sense of community, family time, and how we raise children? I deem those as far more important aspects of the past than romance and chivalry.
zombienationxo on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 7:37 am
Yes & no. I think its cute when a guy holds a door open etc,but I find myself doing all of that stuff too for them.
MorgansternHoney on Monday, August 27, 2012 at 12:56 am
I dont believe in per marital sex lol