She'll receive, but will not give.

[sam20r]

So, I completely love and trust my girlfriend. She always expects me to take care of her physical needs, and I love doing that, except it makes my physical needs and cravings even worse. I hate sounding selfish or rude, but she always claims she is "not ready" for the little things I want. I have done a lot more to her, and she likes it alot, and asks for more. She claims she is "not comfortable" to do anything to me. I would love it if she would just take a small babystep and think about how I feel. A relationship is all about providing for each other right?

[JohnDoe429]

How is this an issue for relationships at age 15? Damn. ಠ_ಠ

[BigDaniel12]

^ nuff said.


To me it seem like you wanna appear in 16 and pregnant.

[Kiralicious]

you're not being selfish, she is.
she can't expect you to do whatever the fuck she wants you to do and give nothing back, that's bullshit.

Tell her if shes' not comfortable giving you some then you're not comfortable giving her some.

[PLucy]

What exactly are you talking about, sexually? You're being vague.

[sam20r]

Well, I do mean sexually, but not sex. I am not ready for it, and neither is she. We have been on and off for 3 years, and we are looking to stay connected and committed. Sexual activities are proven to make or break a relationship.

[PLucy]

Sexual activities are proven to make or break a relationship.

I... I guess?

I think you should talk to her. Ask her why she is not ready. What will make her ready or want you more. And don't be offended if she answers like "you should shave everything..." because maybe thats what she wants.

[hovla]

you're not being selfish, she is.
she can't expect you to do whatever the fuck she wants you to do and give nothing back, that's bullshit.

Tell her if shes' not comfortable giving you some then you're not comfortable giving her some.

you beat me to it. well said.

[rickydavis2011]

Dump her, dump her now.

[K_F_C]

We have been on and off for 3 years, and we are looking to stay connected and committed.

Sooo, you started dating at around...12? Did you meet her at Chuckie Cheese or something?

[Schadenfreude-]

Have you explained how you feel to her? Perhaps stop performing for her and explain you're not interested when you're not getting anything back