Feeling bad about rejecting advances, but...

[AdviceINeed]

I feel bad about rejecting my best friends advances. She is too flaky about how she feels about me and I have wasted too much time liking her. I told her I liked her and a day later she changed her mind again, and after that I was done...

Tonight we hung out with friends, driving around, she was sitting next to me in the backseat and she had a mutual friend text me and tell me to hold her hand, and I did not. Like I said she hurt me too much and I deserve someone better than a person who cant make up her mind...

She kept brushing up again me, looking at me, gazing into my eyes, told me to put her arm around her, etc, and I did none of that. Maybe its because she is so important to me and has been for so long, or maybe its because im a wuss, but I feel bad about turning her down.

Dont get me wrong haha im extremely proud of myself for being able to turn her down when she was sitting right next to me making it so obvious, but still

I usually never do, I usually just give in, and I just feel awful about it, I dont really understand why maybe you could shed some light. I know that for right now im much happier not thinking about her every second of the day and I know she deserved to be turned down, but...

[Camaro_91_00]

Your actions were perfectly just.

She will keep toying with your emotions if you just keep giving in, because she knows she can get away with it..... She will play with you as long as you let her, so it was great that you sent her that invisible message.