I'm having trouble understanding the level of stupidity

[jenjenxD]

furreal, or at least she could just not have kids all together and stop the endless chain of broken families and the feeling of no love in her family...

[StupidBetch-]

Some chicks are srsly addicted to having kids. My aunt is like that. If she didn't have tumors in her uterus she'd probably have 8 kids by now. Everyone was super pissed at her because she didn't raise the 2 she already had but continued getting pregnant over and over again she just lost them because of the tumors. She still plans on trying to have more kids even though the tumors are still there and she's almost 40 and she's currently living on our fucking couch.

[BADGERguy1]

Is she black?

[jenjenxD]

she's one quarter mexican, one quarter black, one quarter native american and one quarter white lol

[VivienTx]

Please explain which part of the story made you feel the need to describe this woman as a hoe.

Indeed, I don't really see no reason to call her a hoe.

Also yes the opinion of getting more kids to get more welfare money is kinda stupid. But for the rest I actualy think she didn't make that much of a stupid decisions... I can understand she married and got kids... and the divorce I understand as well of course haha.

I find it actually more stupid to judge someone you only just knew... and I think she was just being kind to you by telling her who she is and what has happened to her so far. And the decision to not work in the area she studied for is actually a smart one when you really don't like it. I know many people who work in a field they are utterly unhappy with. However I disagree that she should stick working as a server... she should go for a new career she loves or even a new education.

And if she goes for the welfare money... really I would say move to my country, she'll be 'helped' a lot more for doing even less what she does now.

Oh and if I was her of course I'd not be content lol... I wouldn't even want kids at a that young age. But well she's not from my place... here most girls aren't busy with kids, marriage, family at that point... here girls my age are still working on their careers.

[lulzydoll]

welcome to 2010

[MyNameIsNotBrad]

I met a girl @ work today who is 23 years old. She was training under me so I naturally asked her a bit about herself and she told me basically her life story.

At 20, she got pregnant with her first son by her military boyfriend of 5 years, so a year later after she had the baby she married him. A year later, she had another son with him. Shortly after they got divorced because her youngest son expressed he "doesn't like the other woman Daddy sleeps with".

She has her associates degree in Hospitality and Tourism Management but she "doesn't like it" so she doesn't want to pursue anything in that area, she seems to not have any career goals or anything planned financially for these kid's future. Mind you, she's working as a server with two kids....8 dollars is not enough for me (nevermind 3 people..)

So she has a new boyfriend now and she HAD ANOTHER BABY WITH HIM. THREE KIDS AT 24. WHY. You think after one failed married and two kids later when getting a boyfriend you would think of maybe using some type of contraception!

She also told me that SHE came from a broken family and she didn't want to show her kids divorce but she inevitably repeated her parents' mistakes. The worst part is when she said the more children she has the more welfare money. I really just don't get how people can live like this when it's so easier to have a better life for yourself (& eventually, your family.)

'Bout the dumbest thing I read in that was that she spent money and went to school for some'n that she didn't even want to do......


Other than that, sounds like another day in the hood.

[jenjenxD]

no excuse to be irresponsible

[Aerosphere]

You know her for like a day and like others said only know a fraction. If she was with her first guy that long and she was working on a degree which unfortunately turned out not liking which really happens to many people who are single and fre
. Also its not like she was with a bum IM sure he did and does get paid great by the military. Its not really her fault that later down the road after she was invested he turned into a dick and cheated. IM sure he's still paying a hefty child support if she's smart.
No she probs shouldn't of had a baby with the next Guy so hastily until she figured other things out but you probably don't know the circumstances to that either. But you know, the fact that she is actually working and not sitting and doing nothing and depending solely on others shows something. I've had so many server jobs and even the shittiest ones got me by and left me a good amount of personal money and i live in the most expensive highest rent place ever.
Irk IM not saying anything else anyone else hadn't already but from your time here you don't seem worried about much more than typical issues and how you look and who you're banging which isn't even meant to be insulting just that its a bit much to understand things like this if you don't experience some yourself

[jenjenxD]

my parents both grew up dirt poor and i didn't but i do try and understand other people and their circumstances. the only reason why she said she has this job is because she's sick of being a stay at home mom because all she does is watch movies, she didn't even seem like she was trying to get more cash. but yes i do understand it is hard to break patterns in a family and moving up from the bottom trust me both my parents worked their asses off and i plan on doing the same

[jenjenxD]

and of course i mostly talk about juvenile things as we all do on here it's not exactly the best place to have a deep meaningful conversation

[StupidBetch-]

The grand majority of military wives have kids young because they're bored as hell and there's not much else to do. And military relationships are already incredibly rushed because the guy never knows when he's going to be called away or sent to war. Plus the guy gets paid more money the more kids he has.

[jenjenxD]

i didnt know that but that sounds not good for a marriage. =/

[StupidBetch-]

Living in a military town I know a lot of divorced people. There's also rampant cheating. My back neighbor had to move out when he found out his wife was cheating on him with his friend (also in the military) while he was in Afghanistan. Its drama.

[honeytastelikehoney]

This girl thought she could trust you with a her life story and you go on a teen forum, and tell everyone about her life, and how she is stupid. I don't see how she is stupid at all, really. she is trying to have a roof over her kids' head, it seems like she's training for a new job.

Also maybe she was kidding about "the more children she has the more welfare money" and you misunderstood her! Yeah, she got pregnant twice but shit happens, but that doesn't make her stupid, or a bad woman. She was with her boyfriend for 5 years, and got again pregnant while married. The only one stupid person in that group was her ex-boyfriend who cheated.

I read your about me on your profile and I find it funny that you say you like respect. Is that a joke, or something?