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    Default gay/bi guys please help!

    Hey I'm having the hardest time trying to find a bf! Or even a good friend. How did you find your first bf? Thanks

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    I have the same problem. But love cant be found without a spark. dream weaver out

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    Well my first (and only) boyfriend, went to my school, but I didn't talk to him until I found out he went on a social networking site I used, so it was summer so I guess I figured might as well talk to him. Eh it was all nice and just platonic but then....things just got flirty? Like between the both of us and we decided we were going to date, but he had a girlfriend. So she broke up with him the first week of school, and he was mine for 6 months. Best 6 months of my life, to date....
    "A translucent smile that doesn't convey anything, but I'm happy with just that."

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    Find a bf is hard lol. Lots of people r in the closet so it's difficult to find people.
    Hmm I think this is a good site to find one.
    School, parties etc...
    I have 3 gay/bi friends in school

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    Its kinda tough .-. All of my friends are bi or gay, but theyre chicks. Last month i met a new gay person in my neighborhood 0.0 Sometimes you gotta explore, im sure youll find someone xD

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    Hey mines was my best friend through school. Love is not easy to find. It takes time an effort for some people. If you really want someone you could either wait til the right one comes or stand up and look for your guy...the right guy.

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    I still haven't found one >:{ aha but I have found a guy who I think may like me :b now to just seal the deal :]
    No matter how hard life may seem, stay strong and stay with a smile!(:

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    I'm having the same exact problem. I just have so few places to even look. It's not easy at all lol. Try dating sites or a site such as this one, or maybe an LGBT club in your area. Just know that you're not the only one having trouble finding a boyfriend. Good Luck!!!

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    The hottest guy ever moved to my school and after physical education I couldn't help staring him during the shower.. XD when he realized I was staring, he smiled and I smiled back, then after classes he asked me for a ride on my bike. When we were near his house he asked me while I was staring at him and I was quite honest and he said it was cool to know that we could be good friend.. but the friendship skipped really soon to a two year old relationship. Too bad, he had to move out to another country though and our feelings fade away eventually and now we're just good friends.

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    Just keep meeting and getting to know all different people, then your bound to find at least ONE person

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    I just occasionally pull and blow my gay friends

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    i never have and never will. loner for life

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrgrapejuice View Post
    i never have and never will. loner for life
    Oh stoppit, you're a great guy and youll eventually find someone!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrgrapejuice View Post
    i never have and never will. loner for life
    I never dated anyone. And I don't plan to. You have hope to date, I don't exactly. You have the possibility. Don't give up. If anyone here is to be called loner for life, it'd be me not you. So stop giving up. Keep pushing.
    If you require help, I shall be happy to try!
    And If you have any tips on how I could improve, please tell me!

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    Being from Kentucky, and living in a town that is predominately Christian, there isn't a very large LGBT community here.
    Especially in High School. I even asked a guy out here once, and he almost said yes, but didn't because he was closeted.
    I mean, you just have to keep looking, I suppose. You never know, someone could turn up in the most unlikely of places.

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