Oh damn.

[Kafta]

I met this guy yesterday, when working things out with another guy. Today we see each other again and he admits he likes me. We start talking, we were walking together for a few minutes and he asked me out. He's nineteen, I'm fourteen. He seems sweet and nice but he's also sketchy. He has openly admitted that he used to not respect girls and keep three girlfriends at once. He has some mental issues, but who doesn't? He looks like he doesn't shower regularly and he's super skinny. He bikes over to my neighborhood everyday, it's a 45 minute ride over. He gets here around seven every morning. He's an over impressor. He over explains things acting like I don't know what they are. He seems really sweet, but as I said he's sketchy and not sure if I should trust him. And add in the fact that when he asked if I had a boyfriend I stupidly said no. Damn.

[Metal4EVR]

he you think he's sketchy he probably is lol, and why did you say no? xD

[Kafta]

I wasn't thinking. I was trying to keep my dog for chasing the car passing by and he caught me off guard.

[Kafta]

And I think I forgot to mention how he told me he has severe anger management problems.

[JohnDoe429]

It doesn't take a brain surgeon to know he is no good for you...

[Kafta]

I know he isn't good I just don't know how to reject him without him hurting me.

[DC_boss]

haha hey its you again!!! well if it is going great with that other guy date him and say you have a boyfriend next time he asks you out>

he is 19 and your 14 that wont work out he could be in college right now so choose the right path to go down but remember its you choice <3 :P

[Kafta]

He just got out of high school a year ago and is living with his moms friend. No college yet. Lol

[OMCheese]

He's 19 you're 14. Thars not going to work very well. If he has anger problems that's not a good thing. And if I were you id go for the guy that I already like. Just get with the good guy then he can't do anything about it. If he keeps it up twll someone you trust

[Kafta]

He's here every morning around seven thirty. I had to walk home. I RAN. And he was wearing the same clothes two days in a row. I'm not against wearing a tshirt twice. But he rides his bike everywhere in the hot sun. Gross.

[K_F_C]

He's nineteen, I'm fourteen.

I stopped here lol

I mean...you're fresh out of preschool, and he's fresh into college...

[AnHonestGuy]

He. Is. NO. Good.

Any guy who is 19 and interested in a 14 year old has major problems. If you're legitimately worried about him hurting you, tell your parents. I guarantee you one talk from your father and you'll never hear from him.

[DisparityByDesign]

I rarely post in the forums outside Site Help these days but since I actually respect the OP I'll go right ahead.

I met this guy yesterday, when working things out with another guy. Today we see each other again and he admits he likes me. We start talking, we were walking together for a few minutes and he asked me out. He's nineteen, I'm fourteen. He seems sweet and nice but he's also sketchy. He has openly admitted that he used to not respect girls and keep three girlfriends at once. He has some mental issues, but who doesn't? He looks like he doesn't shower regularly and he's super skinny. He bikes over to my neighborhood everyday, it's a 45 minute ride over. He gets here around seven every morning. He's an over impressor. He over explains things acting like I don't know what they are. He seems really sweet, but as I said he's sketchy and not sure if I should trust him. And add in the fact that when he asked if I had a boyfriend I stupidly said no. Damn.

Even if I completely disregard the age gap ad argumentum, I have to say get out. This cannot possibly end well. I would know, I've wooed all sorts of batshit crazy by now. Reject him by cutting him out of your life outright.

It doesn't take a brain surgeon to know he is no good for you...

After having read your posts in another thread, I'm trying very hard not to troll you in ways that would get me banned five times over and annihilate your self-esteem. You're welcome.

[Kafta]

Thanks. But I don't know how to get him out of my life without pissing him off or his friends. I could tell me my mom, but I don't think there's a lot she can do because he has only talked to me so far. And asked me out. Wonder what she can do with that....

[DisparityByDesign]

Someone making you strongly and reasonably feel they will imminently physically hurt you legally constitutes assault. And you're illegal as all hell for sex or foreplay. Let your mom know everything mentioned in this thread.

[Kafta]

Thanks. I don't know much about the law so that helps a lot.

[Kelsey_Kat16]

sweetie he wants into your pants...hes 19 your 14 thats not a relationship thats babysitting..its also illegal to do things with him and he could wind up in jail and the rest of his life ruined even if you do consent....dont do it just walk away

[PLucy]

Dude, you just described a shit load of negative things about him. Fuckin' move on. Who cares about his feelings, when he obviously didn't when he had 3 girlfriends all at once. Fuck him