How can girls wait to be sexual?

[JohnDoe429]

And all you do is call girls sluts that dont follow norms you want them to. Topic isnt about girls sleeping around, topic is about girls in relationship waiting on purpose to have sex even tho they want it. And yes they wait so judgmental guys like you wouldn't publicly call them sluts. Try reading posts with understanding next time instead of whipping out your same old rhetoric.

I laugh at irony of the last sentence.

Or maybe they wait because they aren't sluts who won't have sex with anyone without know them well first. Doubt any girl would care if I called them a slut. Which is why I brought up the topic of parents.

You failed to respond to any of my points.

[JavaTC]

Wrong. As I already explained, all you are doing is justifying being a slut...which is totally ignorant. Read my other posts.

I am comfortable with my body, lots of people are. Just because they are doesn't mean they have to go sleeping around with people they don't really know or love. That makes zero sense. If I was a parent I wouldn't want my child hopping in bed with people because they comfortable with their sexuality...as I said before.

You are naive young people who don't fully understand what you want. It has nothing to do with "being comfortable". That is total BS. Get some morals.

The world doesn't follow your moral pattern, i.e just because you consider someone a slut and think lesser of them for having sex doesn't mean the world is going to follow your lead and shun them from society. In reality, we need sex to even exist, yet so many people have turned it into some kind of love ritual. Although I don't support people who just go around and have sex with anyone and everyone, that doesn't mean having sex before actual love is bad. It's a risk they're willing to take, and it's their body for them to do as they see fit with, not yours.

I don't really understand what's so taboo about having sex in your eyes. There's plenty of risks involved, like getting an STD or getting pregnant, but guess what, loads of careers are dangerous and have many risks yet people do them anyway because they're necessary (for example, logging). Bottom line being that if we don't have sex, we don't survive. Plus it's an enjoyable experience, it's not like you're getting nothing out of it but issues.

[JohnDoe429]

The world doesn't follow your moral pattern, i.e just because you consider someone a slut and think lesser of them for having sex doesn't mean the world is going to follow your lead and shun them from society. In reality, we need sex to even exist, yet so many people have turned it into some kind of love ritual. Although I don't support people who just go around and have sex with anyone and everyone, that doesn't mean having sex before actual love is bad. It's a risk they're willing to take, and it's their body for them to do as they see fit with, not yours.

I don't really understand what's so taboo about having sex in your eyes. There's plenty of risks involved, like getting an STD or getting pregnant, but guess what, loads of careers are dangerous and have many risks yet people do them anyway because they're necessary (for example, logging). Bottom line being that if we don't have sex, we don't survive. Plus it's an enjoyable experience, it's not like you're getting nothing out of it but issues.

Read my posts to other people please. I don't think lesser of people for having sex. My problem is that I think some people lack morals and hop in bed with people they barely know. I don't think that is right.

BTW all these people having "casual sex" aren't reproducing so human survival has nothing to do with it.

[Kiralicious]

Why are you making things up? You're acting like I am all against sex and stuff. I'm not. All I am saying is that people should have morals and not just hop into bed with guys they don't even really like because they "are comfortable".

And the last part of your post, I respectfully disagree.

I'm not making stuff up, I'm making a hypothesis based on the things you post.

which reminds me, I believe I saw you post this elsewhere:

People are gonna judge everyone, straightedge or not. Get over it.

right? You reserve the right to judge us all and tell us we're sluts or lack morals just because we say we don't mind having sex after a shorter waiting period, and the rest of us reserve the right to think you're bitter and on a high horse and that you have unrealistic expectations of people.
besides, like hovla said, this thread wasn't even about girls sleeping with every guy they come across, just about the length of their waiting period, yet you came in here swinging your slut lightsaber, which is why these arguments are going on.

Feel free to disagree, but when you invest a lot of time into a relationship with a girl and then discover that you two can't have good sex together tell me how fast that relationship will take a shit.

[JohnDoe429]

Well then if you are making a hypothesis I can tell you it's wrong. Be real here. You think a guy is gonna respect a girl who hops in bed with someone as soon as they think they may be "slightly" in love?

[Kiralicious]

Some won't, but the majority probably don't care as much as you do.
Most people, unless they're the insanely jealous type, enter a relationship with the mindset of wanting to know if they're partner is a virgin or not or how much sexual experience they have, but knowing that whatever that person did sexually before their relationship is irrelevant.

[JohnDoe429]

So even if they were and ex prostitute and fucked hundreds of people, it is irrelevant?!

[Kiralicious]

lmfao dude, that is an EXTREME example. I'm pretty sure everyone would want to know if their partner used to be a prostitute.
But if you start dating a girl who has had, say, three sexual partners, all or some of which she slept with without necessarily being 100 percent in love with them, would you toss her to the side and deem her a slut, or would you admit that her previous conquests are not your business?

[JohnDoe429]

Depends on a lot. Can't really answer that.

[Kwame_]

I haven't seen thread pollution of this magnitude in years! This misogynistic idiot can't be brought down with our power rings alone. There's only one thing we can do at this point. Let our powers combine!

Earth!

[Wheeler_]

Fire!

[JohnDoe429]

^Someone is a major troll.

[Linka_]

Wind!

[Gi_]

Water!

[Ma-ti_]

Heart!

[The__Captain]

By your powers combined, I am Captain Planet!

[All_In_Unison]

GO PLANET!

[JohnDoe429]

What the hell is happening?

[The__Captain]

Holy fuckballs! This guy is one misogynistic virgin asshole! I'm going to need back-up on this one- off to the mods!

[All_In_Unison]

ALL RIGHT!