Theres somthin i got to ask to get it off my chest for girls..

[Fat_tony233]

Over the time when i was a kid growing into a teenager i have been a little bit on the fat side. Girls dont even look twice at me. The past relationships ive been in have never worked and have lead to no where. I wanna know what girls actually look for and what catches their eye. Is it the abs,muscles, and bright blue eyes all the time? Right know im at a place where i just dont understand...

[Kristyyeah]

Honestly, if i were to date a guy i wouldnt be too picky on looks..personally i like fatter/chunky guys over muscular guys...i like short brown hair and brown eyes on a tall chunky guy..but if girls are too busy worrying what you look like..move on!

[Gooferz]

It's all about personality, gotta be kind, sweet, fun (doesn't have to be funny though that's a plus), interesting, unique and he shouldn't be focused too much on the sexual stuff. If I was to focus on looks, if he wears specs thats a plus, any colour eyes, any race, either on the plump side or just a little muscular, taller than me, any hair length and he must love how he looks (how am I gonna love him if he doesn't love himself?)

[OMCheese]

I personally would date you. Your cute even if your chubby. I'm not small eithet so ik what you're feeling. You are cute and seem like a nice guy. That's what matters. That you're nice

[PhazonSeed]

Being a little chubby or even fat shouldn't be that big of a problem. I've seen absolutely enormous people find their way into both short-term sexual relationships and long term relationships with the right sort of people. Some people do actually prefer fatter people, but it is a lot less common. If you feel like completely giving up, try growing a sweet beard. Chicks dig beards when they're done right.

[steve_bl_bc]

One word, confidence

[steve_bl_bc]

And OMcheese, you are so cute

[kaylee22hope]

sometimes people dont understand that its not what you look like. its about your personality.

[kaylee22hope]

im sure you will find a girl who likes you for who you are

[JavaTC]

Just to correct some of you, it's not all about personality, looks do take a part in it. Although I'll agree that they should never be the deciding factor, they typically do take part in the decision. I personally don't care about looks, but the majority of this site just blocks me when I message them because I'm not that hot guy they're looking for. Just saying though, different people like different things, you'll find a girl that's right for you.

[baskinrobins]

Personality gets me it's never about the looks for me if he has an amazing genuine personality that catches my attention very fast