help, i really hate my mum. idk how to deal.

[jjtaylor9696]

okay so i hate my mother, always have. i ended up punchin her in the face once, n i am a cutter bc she stresses me out so much. i argue with her all the time, n she always wins. shes been keepin me fr seein anyone for like 2 weeks now. only time i got to see someone was once when i walked there, the whole 4 miles, or when i started to walk n she brought me the rest of the way bc i said i was goin whether she liked it or not. im so frinkin sick of her. i want her to die.

[PLucy]

You hit your mom? ...

Are you fucking stupid? Stupid children like you make me never want to have children.

[Kiralicious]

Quit being such a spoiled fucking brat.

[Camaro_91_00]

Quit being such a spoiled fucking brat.

^^ This.
She is the mom, and you are the child. whether you like it or not, your mother's word is law.

[hipstersquirrels]

The shit? Why are people so disrespectful to their parents?
Grow the hell up. When you see your mother in a casket I hope and pray you're eaten alive by guilt.

[hovla]

Quit being such a spoiled fucking brat.

[Gooferz]

OHMYGOSH dude, she may stress you but hitting her!!??? WTF she had you in her womb for 9 months, she could have just aborted you but she didn't. You can be a rebel, if she pisses you that much but don't ever lay a finger on your mum, you'll die of guilt if you do. And most people go through that stage where they really feel like they hate their parents but with time you'll grow up at least I did now I just dont care,, that much...

[Metal4EVR]

Well aren't you just a bundle of joy lol, parents will piss you off from time to time but from what you've told me she's not done anything that bad, you just don't like not getting your own way. Grow up, get some balls and respect her a bit more... which funnily enough means never laying a hand on her. Again, from what you've said it doesn't sound like you have it that bad so shut the fuck up and deal with it.. we all have our own problems.

[JohnDoe429]

Rude. She is just trying to look after you. You should be grateful to have a mom, many kids grow up without a mother figure in their life.

[richteen92]

You hit your mom?!?! She gave birth to you! You should never lay your hands on your parents!! I hope the next time you hit her she calls the police cause you need to wake the fuck up and grow up!!!! The world does not revolve around you! When your parents tell you to do something, you do it. Its seems like you just don't like being told what to do and people like you won't get far with that attitude!

[infinite_smile]

Really guys?

You hear about a violent act and immediately go after the teen just because she should "grow up"? Doesn't that seem hypocritical? I guess not and parents are always right in everything they do because there's no such thing as bad parents, only bad kids. Kids behaviour must have NOTHING to do with parents influence...

Mrs. jjtaylor
Life is tough and I'm sure we can all sympathise with that. You really can't mean what you said, after all you only get one mother. You dont want her to die, I lost mine when I was 9. It still sucks not having her today. I know that I dont understand your whole situation but arguing will never get you anywhere, nor will cutting. It might be a way to deal with the pain but you know whats better? TALKING! If she doesnt know how you feel and you dont know how she feels and why shes doing what shes doing... ask her! I had to get along with my dad and we had fights and stuff but we talked our way through it.

Itll be okay, if your just both respectful of eachother you can get through it

Please, PM me if you want any more help or just to get away from these people's opinions

[Gooferz]

infinite_smile
the rest of us are not giving bad advice maybe the way it's framed is a little harsh but she needs to know she can't just go around hitting her mum that's acting like a stuckup spoilt BRAT

jjtaylor9696
you should stop cutting try talking it out

[Kiralicious]

Really guys?

You hear about a violent act and immediately go after the teen just because she should "grow up"? Doesn't that seem hypocritical? I guess not and parents are always right in everything they do because there's no such thing as bad parents, only bad kids. Kids behaviour must have NOTHING to do with parents influence...

Mrs. jjtaylor
Life is tough and I'm sure we can all sympathise with that. You really can't mean what you said, after all you only get one mother. You dont want her to die, I lost mine when I was 9. It still sucks not having her today. I know that I dont understand your whole situation but arguing will never get you anywhere, nor will cutting. It might be a way to deal with the pain but you know whats better? TALKING! If she doesnt know how you feel and you dont know how she feels and why shes doing what shes doing... ask her! I had to get along with my dad and we had fights and stuff but we talked our way through it.

Itll be okay, if your just both respectful of eachother you can get through it

Please, PM me if you want any more help or just to get away from these people's opinions

The problem here is lack of information.
OP didn't say "my mom abuses me", or "my mom is a drug addict and treats me like crap"
OP said, "I punched my mom in the face because she annoyed me and she grounded me and I don't like that so now I'm cutting myself." Therefore, we can all assume that OP is a shit child.

[Metal4EVR]

Really guys?

You hear about a violent act and immediately go after the teen just because she should "grow up"? Doesn't that seem hypocritical? I guess not and parents are always right in everything they do because there's no such thing as bad parents, only bad kids. Kids behaviour must have NOTHING to do with parents influence...

Mrs. jjtaylor
Life is tough and I'm sure we can all sympathise with that. You really can't mean what you said, after all you only get one mother. You dont want her to die, I lost mine when I was 9. It still sucks not having her today. I know that I dont understand your whole situation but arguing will never get you anywhere, nor will cutting. It might be a way to deal with the pain but you know whats better? TALKING! If she doesnt know how you feel and you dont know how she feels and why shes doing what shes doing... ask her! I had to get along with my dad and we had fights and stuff but we talked our way through it.

Itll be okay, if your just both respectful of eachother you can get through it

Please, PM me if you want any more help or just to get away from these people's opinions

no one said it's ALWAYS the teens fault, we know there are bad parents out there, we just picked up on the whole hitting the parent thing. And while talking sometimes helps people, don't think it always solves everything, doesn't work for everyone i.e. me.. buuut we're not talking about me, no one will truly know the feelings of these two unless they're in the exact same situation and even then the variable is that these two are their own two individual beings so they'll no doubt deal with things differently than others.

[Kristyyeah]

I would never be able to hit my mother,let alone anyone else...your probably a rebel child whos out of control,so when she tries to enforce rules you hit her and disrespect her..no matter what anyone says or does you never hit someone, especially someone who will still put up with you AFTER you hit them, that takes a strong woman.

[jjtaylor9696]

first of all notice how it says i cut? yeah thanks now that youve said that i feel like a shit child that should have never been born again. thanks

[jjtaylor9696]

same goes for you. so you can go fuck yourself. youre nothin but a bitch thanks.

[Metal4EVR]

if you don't like yourself do something about it and i don't mean hurt yourself, changing is sometimes as easy as you want it to be. We're voicing opinions on the matter, why do you care what we or others think?

[Kiralicious]

first of all notice how it says i cut? yeah thanks now that youve said that i feel like a shit child that should have never been born again. thanks

don't give a shit if you cut or not, that's irrelevant to what everyone's calling you out on.

It's difficult to have any sympathy for someone who had written a thread claiming that they physically harmed their own mother without giving a reasonable explanation for it other than "she stresses me out". Does your mother give you a home? Does she provide you with food? Does she provide you with clothing? Does she keep you safe from things and people who try to hurt you? If the answer to all of those questions is yes, then you have no reason to real bitch about her other than teenage angst. In other words, grow up and if you fuck up, deal with the punishment you're dealt.

which reminds me, if you think "she stresses me out" is a good excuse for causing physical harm to someone, please for the love of god don't ever reproduce.

[jjtaylor9696]

fuck you bitch.