GF stopped making love to me

[Kiralicious]

I'm sure there's a statistic somewhere on how many marriages end in divorce because one or both partners are unhappy with their sex life or people cheating on their spouse because they're unhappy with their sex life. Just because you know ttwo couples who have low sex drives doesn't mean the rest of the world is the same and it certainly doesn't mean that this guy is in the wrong for wanting more sex in his relationship

[Ali-31]

if two parts of the relationship have vastly different sex drives, I don't see how that can work unless the high sex-drive person is able to hold out

certainly I wouldn't want to go out with someone that much different to me sexually

it's not wrong to be concerned about your relationship if there is glaring evidence that you're not compatible

[darkstar1486]

Well it just so happens that she is taking anti-depressant meds, this is why it makes it so hard to even talk about. The meds take any libido down to pretty much nothing. So i cant initially blame it on her. I really love her but its just frustrating because all of a sudden there was sex once a week and now nothing. Its almost like false advertising as bad as that sounds.

Yes, i could deal with the hormones myself, however i dont really like too however i still need to release to live...and it is far from the real passionate, incredible sex we used to share together that defines an intimate relationship.

To the one who mentioned about people being married 6 years and having sex once a month, six years is really nothing, What will happen after 30 years of marriage??? Do you really think they will be happy?

Like i said... my parents are have been married 30 years and have a regular 3-4 times a week.

I guess the just of it is, i feel like an unattractive rejected, unappreciated piece of sh*t now that the sex stopped. I workout everyday have a good body and i still feel like this. I feel a bitterness growing towards her i cant help. I try to hide this emotion from her though. This makes me feel terrible because shes on meds and that i shouldn't be bitter ...i get nothing in return all i do is give, give, give. Shes assures me that it will get better but i know she will be on these meds for the rest of her life ...a series of emotional hills, a roller coaster.

It seems the root of it all is work, she's a department manager at a retail conglomerate...how hard can that be???I dont like everything about my job but i cope with it.