2 guys, 1 girl

[PLucy]

I have been hanging out with this guy (I am going to refer to his as... thing 1) and we have never been official as boyfriend and girlfriend (which I'm okay with, we are too different to be a couple) but I have kissed him and I have cuddled with him. We have been like "on and off" in speaking terms, because I've tried to break it off a lot to not get attached, because we weren't gonna be a couple, because he wanted more sexually and I wasn't going to give in ect ect ect.

About a week ago, when we were in non speaking terms, another boy (lets call him thing 2) messaged me to hang out. We did. It was honestly one of the best nights of my summer. We laid in the ground my the lake and watched the stars and talked.

Anyways, thing 1 came back into my life, slowly but surely. So I hung out with thing 1 again. However, I have also hung out with thing 2.

My question is, I am not official with either of these boys, thing 1 knows what we have is just a FWB sort of thing (absolutely no sex, or sexual things beyong kissing) and thing 2 doesn't know about thing 1, should I tell them about eachother? Should I kiss thing 2? Although, I am not in an official relationship with either of them... I feel like I'm betraying them. I don't know, advice? I have cuddled with both of them.

[Mystified_Love]

hmm i think if it makes you feel guilty you should tell them. It seems like you have actual feelings for thing 2 though. correct me if im wrong. So maybe you should just stop things with thing 1 and pursue thing 2? unless you don't want a boyfriend. But in all honesty, nothing is official with either so you don't owe either one an explanation or for them to know about any other boys you doing things with.

[TexasCOUNTRYrc13]

Sounds like you should leave 1 and go for 2. But don't tell 2 about 1. Leading 1 on is messed up though, obviously you don't like him like that. Let him know you don't and let it go.

[Mystified_Love]

Sounds like you should leave 1 and go for 2. But don't tell 2 about 1. Leading 1 on is messed up though, obviously you don't like him like that. Let him know you don't and let it go.

she said thing one clearly only wanted FWB. shes not leading him on. now thing 2 doesnt know anything so if he has obvious feelings for her and she doesnt want a relationship then not telling him about thing1 would be leading him on.

ohmygod, all these thing1 thing2 is mixing my head up lol

[Porcheria]

I thought this was a threesome thread... I am disappoint.

[Stay-Gold]

Stop being a frigid bitch and just put out for them already.
Gawd.

[PLucy]

Why? I'm not getting what I want, why should I give in to them? It's a two way street.

[TexasCOUNTRYrc13]

Stop being a frigid bitch and just put out for them already.
Gawd.

At least some girls get it

she said thing one clearly only wanted FWB. shes not leading him on. now thing 2 doesnt know anything so if he has obvious feelings for her and she doesnt want a relationship then not telling him about thing1 would be leading him on.

ohmygod, all these thing1 thing2 is mixing my head up lol

I guess I didn't mean "leading him on" so to speak, but anytime you're still hanging out with a guy whether you tell him your intentions or not in his eyes your sort of leading him on. It's a little confusing I guess.

[Stay-Gold]

Why? I'm not getting what I want, why should I give in to them? It's a two way street.

Didn't your mama never tell you that you can't get everything you want?

[PLucy]

Didn't your mama never tell you that you can't get everything you want?

My mama also said don't settle for shit, when I can get better.

[Stay-Gold]

My mama also said don't settle for shit, when I can get better.

And if one of them is shit, there really was no reason for this thread, no? xD

[PLucy]

Neither of them are. Did you forget WE were talking about sex? Anyways.

[PLucy]

hmm i think if it makes you feel guilty you should tell them. It seems like you have actual feelings for thing 2 though. correct me if im wrong. So maybe you should just stop things with thing 1 and pursue thing 2? unless you don't want a boyfriend. But in all honesty, nothing is official with either so you don't owe either one an explanation or for them to know about any other boys you doing things with.

You were the best. Thank you.

[steve_bl_bc]

Can I be #3?

[Xxskater_punkxX]

I thought this was a threesome thread... I am disappoint.

so did i haha