Sexual abuse

[jjangles111]

something i cant understand, but feel for!

[Kafta]

Thanks all of you. I think im in the stage of accepting it and all that.

[Headcase-]

I was molested by two different family members from the ages of 7-12.
I don't know what clearing the fence looks like in terms of getting molested.
I mean, I'm not an idiot, I know it wasn't my fault, it's not happening to me anymore, but it still happened, and I still remember it.
Maybe it's part of the reason I'm a little bit of a ho-bag now, but I can't be sure.

[ILove1D1997]

i didnt technically get sexually abused my ex step dad used to molest me at night while he would think i was awake but it has stopped considering my mom divorced him but how old r u?

[Heisenberg-]

No, you're not alone.

Honestly, I think that you need to talk to somebody that you trust about this issue, not a message board of random people.

[nessarific]

Unfortunately I know all too well what you are going through.
I would encourage you to seek professional help. It is good that you're reaching out here.. I think the anonymity of the internet can make it easier to talk about such difficult topics, but a professional is going to have more knowledge on how to deal with the situation than a bunch of random people (granted we speak from personal experience) not everyone here has figured out how to move on. It's something that I struggle with every day and it has controlled my life to a point where I'm starting to take measures towards re-conditioning my brain not to fear human touch.

The best of luck to you.

[Mystified_Love]

Yep, at 14 by my uncle. My therapist says that's why I went out of comtrol screwing all kinds of boys. Like said by someone else, I'm not stupid I know it wasn't my fault. But sometimes it still gets to me. Its something you can never forget.

[HotPinkSunglasses]

I've never been sexual assaulted but I have been physically abused by my Mom.
Anyways, I just wanted to say that I'm really sorry. I couldn't imagine going through something like that.
Know that your not alone. If you ever need someone pm me(:

[Kafta]

I'm 14. This guy has been at me for two years.

[julialovesgiraffes]

I HAVE

IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU GET OVER OR FORGET. JUST SOMETHING YOU TRY NOT TO REMEMBER.

^this

[bigbigstar]

Strong topic that just needs to stop. We are really in a time where how you look means everything? Nobody can get to know anybody anymore because they are too interested in body parts. I for one hate this. i hate how in school( a place we are suppose to be learning for are futures) i have to deal with girls and guys wearig inappropriate clothing and how many people stare at girls because they are trying to wear inappropriate things. I dont cre how people look because thats how we were brought in to the world, im nice to everybody i see. Never turn away from a conversation and im sick and tired of crap like sexual abusement. Im sorry about your situation and hope one day that you will find somebody that will treat you better than just a freaking toy. Was there ever a time when anybody just thought i like this person because we have a lot in common?

[MeggyGirl22]

I have trust me u r not a lone.

[I_Am_Once_Was]

Nope.

[Reginasfangirl]

Strong topic that just needs to stop. We are really in a time where how you look means everything? Nobody can get to know anybody anymore because they are too interested in body parts. I for one hate this. i hate how in school( a place we are suppose to be learning for are futures) i have to deal with girls and guys wearig inappropriate clothing and how many people stare at girls because they are trying to wear inappropriate things. I dont cre how people look because thats how we were brought in to the world, im nice to everybody i see. Never turn away from a conversation and im sick and tired of crap like sexual abusement. Im sorry about your situation and hope one day that you will find somebody that will treat you better than just a freaking toy. Was there ever a time when anybody just thought i like this person because we have a lot in common?

No. You're conflating a lot of unconnected things. Sexual abuse has almost nothing to do with the way people look, or liking people, and nearly everything to do with the exercising of power and dominance. In that same vein, sexual abuse has been a reality of human societies for as long as such things have existed.

[Bronniie]

Your definatly not alone... it happened to me too. it was my brother.... And now he is having a baby with his girlfriend and im ralyy worried that he could harm the baby...

[ricochetx]

I was raped and molested a lot of times and I've only just turned 20 a month ago. You're not alone, hon. I was raped when I was 15 by a middle-aged man. I don't even remember what he looks like; I only remember a dragon tattoo he had on his arm. He peed on me and had a lot of insane, painful fetishes. Then I was raped on a daily basis by my ex-boyfriend who was also verbally and physically abusive. I am not going to lie to you, I'm broken and I think I'm irreparable. I have night terrors almost every day and even sometimes still wet the bed because of them. I am manic depressive and clinically depressed but am not suicidal at the moment. I don't know why I wake up every morning and feel no motivation to do anything. But I am thankful for my boyfriend. He's a godsend and has been nothing but beyond amazing to me and I appreciate everything he's ever done for me. All I can say to you, is that you're not alone and that more people suffer from sexual abuse than you think. It's a sad fact but it's true. Hang in there and stay strong, if not for yourself, but for the millions of people who have been sexually abused. <3

[hotprincess98]

sexual abuse is where some one forces themselves ontoyou by having actual sex or \ny type of oral sex