When someone leaves a scar on you.

[mslittlesibuna]

WARNING: LONG STORY COMING UP Hey guys!
So Im new here and i come mainly for the boards lol. But I have a big issue. And this issue involves 2 guys.
So it all started when I became friends with this guy (lets call him Jacob lol). He would always flirt with me and treat me like a little sister. So in other words, love-hate. He would always tease me, but make me smile. Those where the fun times. (Jacob was 1 school grade ahead of me, but was only 5 moths OLDER then me.) Then things got more complex when he told me he liked me. I told him i honestly like him back (which I did) and was pretty naive, but told him anyway. The next day in class he treated me differently. He treated me like a stranger, but would eventually once in a while, come over and flirt; not be friendly. I began to think, "Is he playing me?" Then as if on cue, my BFF tells me that her older cousin (friends with Jacob) says to stay away from Jacob because he was a player. I immediately concluded he was one. So I confronted Jacob about it and he was mad because he said that was his "old self" and that hes changed. (However he still to this day doesnt remember his past girlfriends! ) So he stopped talking to me for a while. When summer came I met this amazing guy (lets name him Edward ) came into my life and treated me like a princess from the start. Not long we began a relationship. I thought to myself how I wouldnt need to worry about Jacob because 1. He is older and going to a different school and 2. He probably doesnt like me anymore. But now, Jacob just comes back into the picture out of nowhere and says "I love you". I finally tell Jacob about my relationship, and after that, he acts different now. First hes flirty and texts "Your cute", but next he texts things that are spelled offensive, but i dont know if its a joke or not. He never texted me crude or possibly offensive things before. Also he lost his playfulness. I know Im not technically doing anything wrong, but somehow I feel bad. I know I have the "perfect" relationship, but something makes me feel cold and weak when Jacob comes in. So heres my question(s): Why am I feeling this way? Did Jacob leave a "scar" on me? What is Jacob trying to say? Is he a player? So yes. Im sorry for the long story, but I had to get it out. Ok so i dont know if ill get much replies, but we'll see. ^-^ ok byeeee

[JavaTC]

I'd say stay away from Jacob personally, more evidence against him than for him.

[Headcase-]

1. I almost wanna give you bad advice just for using the morons from Twilight as your hypothetical guys' names.
2. But I'll restrain. Jacob clearly wants what he thinks he can no longer have, and I can almost guarantee you that if you dump Edward for this "suddenly sweet" guy, then the ever-coveted Jacob will play the hero for, like, a week, then try to fuck you, and then blow you off again, regardless of whether you opt to sleep with him.

I'm sorry, it's just as clear as day.
Stay with E-Bone Capone, he sounds like a decent enough dude, and hasn't screwed with your head.