Granted, I'm only 18, so I guess I got time, but it seems like no one likes me. I remember one person said to me, when I was 16, "that's rare [for a sixteen-year-old to have never had a boyfriend]". I like being single, but it would be nice to have a relationship. Admittedly, though, I didn't start having an interest in this until after I turned 17.
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07-23-2012 06:59 PM #1
I feel like I'll never have a relationship...
I'm not crazy. I'm just quirky!
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07-23-2012 08:05 PM #2
You'll get there evenyually. If you want to meet more people around your age, try being more active in the community. Maybe join a club that interests you, or volunteer somewhere. Going to post-secondary is a great way to meet people that share your interests (but school is still school, so don't forget about classes).
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07-23-2012 08:41 PM #3DRE
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I feel the same way. Im 16 and i've still never had a girlfirend before.
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07-24-2012 05:00 AM #4Registered User
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I'm 14 and feel like I never had a bf too
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07-24-2012 08:52 AM #5
You're teenagers, you have years and years before you really even need to worry about it. I'm 16, never been in a relationship, I'd rather be developing lifelong skills or making friends than concentrating on one person. If a relationship comes my way, then I'll take it, who wouldn't, but don't stress out about not having a boy/girlfriend at your age.
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08-03-2012 11:13 PM #6
They're teenagers. I am not (anymore).
I'm not crazy. I'm just quirky!
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08-04-2012 12:02 AM #7Forever Alone
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You're eightTEEN. Still a teen.
C wat I did thar?!
I'm 17 and never had a girlfriend. The only thing bad about that fact is you may feel inexperienced when you do get a boyfriend.
I wouldn't even date any girls around here...I think all of them are immature fucktards.
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08-04-2012 01:45 AM #8
having a bf or a gf as a teen ain't as important as most people make it out to be. I'm 16 and have had 1 boyfriend and I can tell you it ain't worth all the fuss
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08-04-2012 03:05 AM #9
Just don't make it a thing you completely focuse on, you know?
And I know that's hard because love and sex are everywhere, but if you focuse on others things you will not only experience new things, you will meet new people as well.
You'll find someone, we just all feel lonely from time to time.Someone's insanity grabbed ahold of me...

Love as though you have never been hurt before.
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08-04-2012 03:19 AM #10Registered User
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I know you have like a lot of replies, but keep your head up! My older sister is now 20 and she hasn't dated or kissed her man in her life! You just have to find something to distract you while prince charming shows up
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08-04-2012 06:29 AM #11
You're all young. It will happen, don't worry too much about it. Just go with the flow, and don't take things too seriously, because theae relationshps most likely won't last. And don't get all lovey dovey too easily, chances are you don't love the first person you say "I love you" to (assuming a non-family person now). So relax, kick back, and enjoy rhe ride. Go out and get active, do stuff, social stuff. Don't sit at home. Worst way to find someone, guaranteed, and developing social skills is VITAL.
You don't see it yet, but so are you. It'll be extra evident once you get out of your first real relationship. Happens to everyone.
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08-04-2012 01:45 PM #12
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08-04-2012 01:47 PM #13
Some girls dig innocence. Just putting that out there(;
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08-09-2012 10:27 AM #14Registered User
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im 15 and i've never had a girlfriend so girls pm me or add me plz
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08-09-2012 10:31 AM #15Registered User
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I'm 19 and have only had two boyfriends 1 past aways with in 6 months of being together and my boyfriend i'm with right now i've been with for a while but it took me for ever to feel like it was real and all. hell i was always thinking that i would never stay in a relationship because i've never been so in to keeping with one or another. and no i've never cheated.
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08-09-2012 12:18 PM #16Banned User
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I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. I didn't have a real girlfriend (like more serious than FWB) until I was 18. I changed schools often which was an issue in finding someone to know well enough to have a real relationship with. If you didn't even get an interest till you were 17, and if most of your social circle has known you for a while, then maybe they are still under the impression that you are not interested. Drop a few hints, let the rumor mill work to your advantage, and ask a guy (or girl) out so that at least other people will know that you are looking. Don't be a slut just to get a boyfriend. There are other, better justifications for being a slut, but good boyfriends aren't loyal to sluts. Just put yourself out there on a real and personal level and that's the only way to make real connections. Btw, you are going to get hurt. Just fair warning. But that's no reason to not try.
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08-13-2012 06:54 PM #17Registered User
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I know how ya feel even though I am thirteen and really young!!! I had two girls this past year. The first girl I broke up with bc she was too annoying she talked allot and had this higher than normal pitched voice!!! Even though she was pretty cute! The second girl I broke up with a week ago cause I just wanted to be single... I know I am only 13 but still it's ok to be single also that way you have more rights!!!!!!

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