Friend who doesn't get it

[mylpcnet]

I have had a bf for 2 years now and recently one of my coworkers have become a friend and being that, I asked if he could give me a ride from work to the store, which he did. While his friends were returning something we talked and found out our birthdays are days apart. He said I should give him something and of course I knew what it was but I told him that I wasn't like that. We texted and asked me where my bf was and said that he is going to be my next. I hate making him think we are ever going to be more when i know we aren't. I love my bf to death don't get me wrong but I like the atteniton I'm getting since my bf has been the only guy ever attracted to me. I have no idea what to do as well as how to tell my boyfriend that this kid asked me out and wants to have sex. Like I still want to be friends but I don't think he's going to let up. The one person I trust with this has never had a bf nor knows what to do. So please, help me figure out what to do D=

[thehomie217]

Make yourself look unattractive around him

[mylpcnet]

like I said, I work with him so the only place I see him is at work. I don't want to lose my job. Besides, I know I'm not attractive and that alone is confusing to me

[WhiteLightWhisper]

Why in the world are you still talking to this guy from work? Cut it off for god's sake. That's not smart at all. Whenever a guy friend that I consider just a friend ends up showing interest in me, I start avoiding them. Even when I don't have a boyfriend. Friends should know when they're friends, and if they're trying to cross that line and you're not interested, there should be no sticking around them. Because from then on you'll always know they have something for you, you can't trust their intentions, and it's downright creepy.

Clearly this is just an attention thing for you, which is sort of pathetic. You're going to end up hurting your boyfriend and making it more complicated than it is.