Awkwardness

[RiverSea]

If I tell my friends I'm bi will they become awkward around me, like during PE and stuff? My friend and I also play flirt with each other and I don't want it to stop. Also the subject of gay and lesbians comes up quite a lot (no idea how). Will my friend feel uncomfortable???

[toshirawr]

Hello! Since you've mentioned that the subject of gays and lesbians comes up frequently, use those times to see how your friend reacts towards the subject. From there, you will know if he's alright with the topic, indifferent, or totally repulsive.

[Erickyboo]

Yeah test it out, some people don't mine, some people will feel awkward, some people will joke about it.

[drtom]

the friend you flirt with, what are you conversations like? sounds like he/she may be going thru the same thing. all teens question and maybe experiment with sexuality (or at least they should). you need to find out who you are and what makes you fulfilled. if you trust your friend, have an honest conversation. throw in some comments here and there about your attraction to the same sex and listen to the response. in my own life, i've found if you wait for that sudden time where you sexually experiement, it will probably be very awkward after. and it's true, some friends may feel awkward and leave, but that's the process of finding truly good friends with whom you can be yourself. and once the fear goes away, life is so much better!!!!

[KevinCool26]

Yes. If they're a great person to confide it too, then it may be great to tell THEM.

[dyketastic]

bitch I can't tell the future.

[THiS_BLack_GUY]

dyketastic that was rude and uncalled for -_-
But the only true way to find out is by doing like one-on-one convos to those you're closest to...and remember different ppl have different responses and views on it. So, be careful!!
Best Of Luck