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    Default should i dump him ?x(boys imput included ! )

    ive been having issues with my boyfriend for a while now since he introduced me to his friends we go out together nearly every saturday with his mates and just hang out. and i do like his friends but as soon as my boyfriend leaves the room they instantly flirt with me like stupid stuff like ask me to go with them up to my bf room and try to feel me up etc and one of his best mates is my ex i think a few of them fancy me and i need space from them i explained this to my boyfriend but we got into an argument and he didnt believe me im really getting fed up of having them around but my bf has made it clear that they come in a package what should i do?

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    No, you should not dump your BF if it's his friends that are the problem. Talk to your BF about them, if he really cares about you then he will talk to them about it...but you should probably stop hanging out with them, they seem like perverts.

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    okayy thanks x

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    Have to agree with JohnDoe429, it's stupid to dump a guy because of his friends.

    But obviously your boyfriend has issues trusting you, and if he can't give you time apart from his friends, than that in itself is an issue. You need to work this out with him, because it can't go left alone.
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    If he says they come in a package, then i hate to break it to you, but it's not much of a relationship, is it? A relationship is made of 2 people. Nothing more, nothing less.

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    Sounds like he needs to dump his friends

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    But you already spoke to him. Stop hanging out with his friends. If he has a problem with that dump the fool
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    Aren't you the same chick that made a thread about getting her drink spiked and having sex with two of her ex boyfriends? Jesus christ. It seems to me if you can't be honest with your boyfriend about what you've been doing, and his friends are harassing you and you can't stand up for yourself, you don't deserve a good relationship and should think about being single for awhile.

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    atchually the ex boyfriends one wasnt me its my friend she asked me if she could write one to get an opinion on what she should do x

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    Either way, you still can't stand up for yourself.

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    im struggling to understand how you got "i carnt stand up for myself" when you know nothing about me apart from the little paragraph i have put up about me and my bf's argument :L?

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    Try talking to him again thats what I would do. If he does not care to listen then he does not deserve you. And tell his friends to back off. To be honest they sound like sick immature little boys... Just talk to him is the only advice I think I can really offer you...

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