Why do masculine gays hate us Fem-***s so much?

[mr-mosh]

Okay - like seriously. Every masculine or butch gay male I meet says the same thing! " As long as he's not femme I can date them " it is like?

I understand feminine doesn't do it for everyone but when it goes down to the fact they won't even talk to us on the street or online it is kind of just...well mean? Not all feminine gay men are so picky ,arrogant , bitchy and rude.

[Gboy15]

I don't know, but you would think that as a gay person they should know better than to put all of us gays into all these different categories and judge us all. You would think that maybe that inner hatred would go away within our community because of what we're forced ot go through... but unfortunately, it hasn't.

[Witchapedia]

It's actually quite simple. Most masculine gay men fit into a box of wanting a like minded soul with the same mentality as them. There are others, who like the "guy who's almost a girl" the ones that want a groupie, and the few who ate so brainless, they just need something with a pulse. And there are also us, the feminine gays, who wish for a masculine gay to come along and sweep us off our feet. That... doesn't usually happen. It's because most people think there is the one, stereotypical Kurd of gay, and that is he parade-heading, heel and sequin junkie who draws out most words. There's nothing wrong with any of that, but that's the box that is conveniently there for us.

[LukeCreative]

I guess I always kind of considered myself to be masculine. If it wasn't for my medical background stopping me, I would play football in a heartbeat & I would gladly go back to baseball. But I really don't know what I am anymore... But I love the fine arts & I admire everyone in them and always have. But I really love masculine guys and feminists and the rainbow in between. (gotta be careful, one of my lesbian friends might shoot me)... But I can definately say my other masculine guy friends I see the same trend as you all mentioned so I find it very interesting.