A question for guys.

[LilCaliGurl]

Let's say you live with your girlfriend and she isn't feeling good and she wants to rest so she can try and feel better, but you have some friends over who are loud and just want to play video games until they have to go home (which is in about 5-7 hours).
*Just so you know one of your friends spent the night and you invited your other friend over*

Keep this in mind you and your girlfriend sleep in the living room because your parents are in the bedrooms (if you have a question about that just let me know).


Now how would you handle this situation knowing this information? Be completely truthful about how and what you would do.

[XsrdX22]

He's just having a guys night.

[theChomancheKid]

first id tell my friends to shut the f*** up and continue gaming if my girl kept complaining id kick them out so im gf could rest... or say im kicking them out and actually go with them somewhere else. same meaning tho

[I_Am_Once_Was]

Don't be a buzzkill.

[bucskick36]

What kind of advice do you want? You just want us to agree that you should be mad at him? Be mad my friend

[Kiralicious]

You probably should have been discussing this with your boyfriend instead of making this thread.

If you wanted to rest, he could have left the house and had his guys' night elsewhere, but making a thread on teenspot certainly wasn't going to make that happen for you.

[LilCaliGurl]

I would talk to him about it but he doesn't care so that's why I'm on here to see how others would handle the situation. I'm not here to be criticized or anything like that, so please don't criticize me for making this post.

[FilterDreaming]

This thread could have been written better. Instead you wrote it in a way trying to force us onside. If you won't talk to him then we cant help you.

[Kiralicious]

I would talk to him about it but he doesn't care so that's why I'm on here to see how others would handle the situation. I'm not here to be criticized or anything like that, so please don't criticize me for making this post.

Again, finding out what anyone else would do isn't going to change what your boyfriend is doing. You HAVE to talk to him. Relationships can't work without communication. "I can't talk to him because he doesn't care" isn't an option.

[LilCaliGurl]

I have talked to him about it way before hand which made me do this. Sorry if it wasn't the best choice but I just wanted to hear how others would handle it.

[FilterDreaming]

The thing is we can't help you with the little information you gave us and we cant help you if you won't help yourself. If he's not as caring as you feel he should be then break up with him. As simple as that.