What should I do about this girl?

[Cards06]

To start off, I am a 20 year old guy who is going to be a sophomore in college, and there is this girl who is a friend of mine. She is going to be a junior in high school and she is 16. The past couple of years that I have known her I haven't had any feelings for her, but just thought she was a nice friend. Well, this all changed recently. We've had lunch a few times together this year and after the last one, I have really started to like her more as a friend. In the past, I would play flirt with her and we would make people think we were going out & that I liked her. She would always go along with this because I guess she looked at me as a friend too. I found out how great & pure of a person she was lately because she wants to become a counselor for children who are abused & she wants to open up a no-kill animal*Shelter & I love that The thing is, I don't think that she would really see me as boyfriend & I don't think that I am good enough for her She always seems to go for bad boys even though she's a good girl & I know I could treat her like the princess that she deserves. I don't know if shed even take me serious if I asked her out because we've joked about it alot. Shes a big Christian and I know she wants to wait until marriage for sex, and sex is not what I'm wanting from her—I respect her too much. Im pretty sure she is talking to this guy & he seems like the bad boy type too. I dont want to interfere with her if something is going on because he could actually make her happy. Its just really hard for me What I'd like to know is should I just stop talking to her before I fall even harder for her? *

[Mystified_Love]

Would you man the hell up? You sound like a total pansy.
Ask the girl out or sit back and wonder what coulda been while some other guy is having her.

[Vicktoria_Elyzabeth31]

Awh this is so sweet! Friend zone her take her for a fancy lunch or dinner. Then tell her how you really feel!

[XsrdX22]

Would you man the hell up? You sound like a total pansy.
Ask the girl out or sit back and wonder what coulda been while some other guy is having her.

This

[JohnDoe429]

Maybe you should kill the other guy and get him out of the way.

[hovla]

Would you man the hell up? You sound like a total pansy.
Ask the girl out or sit back and wonder what coulda been while some other guy is having her.

+2

[bucskick36]

Get it together man. She's 16 so first of all you shouldn't go for it. But if you have to, you are the older guy. You are the forbidden and cool one. So act confident and you will have a pretty good chance.

[teen2697]

okay ill be the first nice and real answer.
There are not alot of guys out there who are nice and sweet like u probobly are (again i dont know u), but anyways i at least havent met someone nice. I think that u culd just talk to her and each time show her how much u like her and maybe she will start to fall for u 2. Who knows, she could of been crushing on u a long time ago when u started pretending to be dating. You could also just tell her and say what u said on here. Girls like the idea that a guy is willing to treat them like a princess and for once, doesnt want her for sex.

[Djleon27]

Hey man, best advice is just for 1 week. Dont think about girls. Stear clear from them. After that tou will discover that you are in college.

An old rule the filks should know: if your in college dont date outside of college (highschool) and vice.

Good luck but dont chase after one girl who is not even your age

[FilterDreaming]

Maybe you should kill the other guy and get him out of the way.

Thats so awesome put together with your dp.

[IfYouCantHang]

Personally I think you should go out for dinner and tell her how you feel. If your good friends like you said, she should be able to tell when your joking and when your being serious.
She needs to know how you feel, because for all you know she could be feeling the same but too scared to tell you incase she ruins your friendship.
The fact you two joke about it, could work in your favour because if she reacts badly you can simply say you were joking.
Don't run away from an obviously great friendship because your too scared to explore your options.