My Sister's A Slut

[AyonX]

My younger sister is 17. She's the baby of the house and she's turned into a royal slut over the last year. We used to be shit close, but not anymore. She's skipping school, sleeping with random dudes, forgeing checks in my Mom's name, and I just recently found out she's on drugs and brags about it. She's also trying to be a teen mom and she just recently got out of jail for stealing headphones from Walmart. That shit isn't cute. She runs away for weeks at a time and when she gets back and we confront her, it's all "Fuck this! Fuck that!" My Mom said the next time she runs away we'll just call the cops on her. Long story short, is this how every girl her age acts, or is there something seriously wrong with her? Hate to say it, but i'm really kinda worried.

[repperly]

its alright bro. its mostlikly a phase. if your sister is like this then you need to be supportive and pull a 180 she will come to u and wonder why you backed off. and sneak in her room and replace her drugs with house hold seasoning. and if she still pursists spread a few rumors about her in school like if she has herpes. guys would swarm away. and her experience with drugs will fade. and slowly she will change back... psychological warefare

[Kiralicious]

Don't you know any other girls her age?

Or don't you remember the girls from when you were that age?

Of course not every 17 year old girl acts like that. I mean, I know it's probably not what you want to hear, but your sister sounds like a special case. But there might be an underlying reason for her behaviour, and that's what you should be concerned about.

She might be looking for attention if she feels neglected at home or at school, or if she's angry with you or your parents for some reason that might be her way of "rebelling".

Someone should sit down with her and talk to her.

[AwesomeKid-]

Be a supportive as repperly said, and also you should know that " tell me who's your friends and I tell you who are you " she probably walking with bad girls, or not probably, of course she walking with bad girls.


And remember " Everybody change "

[repperly]

oh thank you for that awsome kid. im guessing y'all are the newer 'kyleloveszoloft' people

[Gabby9485]

I'm 17 myself, and I can tell you for a fact I don't act like that, and neither do my friends. So, no. That behavior isn't normal, but like everyone said, she could be acting out because of some underlying problems. If you guys used to be close, it'd probably do some good to reach out to her. Ask her why she's behaving this way... Don't accuse her though. That could just make things worse. Just let her know that you're there for her, and want to help her out. Also, calling her names, like a "slut" really doesn't help the issue, so try not to use words like that.

[Shevy23x]

do what my cat does and show her you love her.. leave her dead animals..

no seriously though, you might want to do something about that, intervention, my friend, is a tool in its own.

[RobW90]

she sounds like every single girl in NJ...

[MorgansternHoney]

I didnt act like that but it sounds like she could use a firm hand on the tiller.

[remotespindle]

I'm with Gabby9485 and Kiralicious. She needs love and caring, not confrontation. If you lead with how bad she is, she's likely to react very poorly to it, like she seems to already. It's on you to love her unconditionally, apart fom what she does. Don't get exasperated with her or overreact. Be calm.

And the hardest part is, she may not ever get better. But you are going to have to accept defeat countless times and always care about her, even if she turns out to be a lost cause. I'm hoping she doesn't turn out that way though, I hope she comes thru it.

[Josh_froggy]

Join the club. my sister is a slag,
but your sister spent time in jail which is pretty bad and seems like shes on her way to serious trouble.
try talking to her not about all the shit shes done but just generally talk to her and let her know ur there for her and that you love her.

[HotPinkSunglasses]

I agree with Gabby9485 and Kiralicious. Your sister needs to know that ur there for her no matter what she may have become. Beyond that, if u two used to be really close than she will most likely reach out to u more than anyone else.

[j0eStER]

The behavior is very normal. It's the phase of, "I'm legal and I can do anything." - I can't say every girl does this, but I sure do know a lot! Either you have it or you don't. Same with drinking age. If you're 21. Are you going to drink every night and day? Or are you going to be an adult about it and do it once a blue moon? Same shit.

[dave_the_dude]

bi polar?

[Bambie3037]

Dude your her older brother spend more time with her, this isn't a phase, all she wants is attention n before the next time she runs away catch her ask her what's wrong be there for her, maybe somethings happening in her life u don't know about

[JohnDoe429]

Not every girl acts like that, she is having issues. You should talk to her...or have an intervention...or have her see a counselor or something. She could end up hurting herself badly.

Good luck. And it is really nice that you care about her.

[Aeternitas]

I'm honestly not trying to worry you, but like Kiralicious said, there might be an underlying reason. And my mother says (and this is from her personal experience) that girls like that have usually been sexually molested in some way. Maybe she feels "dirty" and "slut-like" and that it's all she's good for. My mother went through that slutty phase after what happened to her. So, there may be some close-to-home reason behind it. Then again, she might just be "coming into her own" - in a sense. Lots of high schoolers like sex and drug/alcohol experimenting. Sort of a pre-college party animal, of sorts.

[NightDemon666]

My sister was like that. But she didn't do drugs or sleep with guys. She would be so bitchy and my older brother did not get along, they do now. Try talking to her. I'm sure it's just a phase. Everyone is like that at some point in there life.