Should I tell my straight best friend that I'm bisexual?

[Chewbacca77]

Well, I'm 19 years old and bisexual, and I really want to tell my best guy friend, who is straight. It just really bothers me that he doesn't know, especially since we always talk about relationships and stuff like that, and he always talks like I'm straight. And I know for sure that he'd be completely alright with it. The thing is, I am incredibly attracted to him. And although I will not tell him this, I'm worried about keeping it a secret. If I tell him that I'm bisexual, I don't think he will ask me if I'm attracted to him, and I don't really think he would even care if he knew that I was attracted to him, but I'm still worried that the subject will somehow come up, and I really don't want to lie to him by saying that I'm not attracted to him. What should I do? Should I tell him that I'm bisexual? And what should I do if he asks me if I'm attracted to him? Should I just lie and say that I'm not, even though I really don't want to lie to him, or should I tell him the truth? Thank you.

[losthowever]

You should tell him because if he is really your best friend he wouldn't care.

[Iceprincessdanii]

I agree with losthowever. If he is your bestfriend he wouldnt care what you are! Let him know!

[Erickyboo]

Yeah! But be careful, some best friends don't turn out to be friends... But yeah if things seem to go well with him then I guess to for it and good luck! Report your outcome if you can!

[mistina]

yep! i'm bisexual and th minute i was sure i told my best friend (whose a girl and shraight) in the end i turned out happier than having 2 hide it from her she was really supportive and she even started setting me up on dates :P...anywayzzz if he's truly ur friend he'll accept u for who u r

[biboys15]

u should tell him ur bisexual because since hes ur best friend, he'll accept u. u should also tell him the truth about being attracted to him because if u tell him that u aren't, it could hurt his feelings. Who knows? maby he is attracted to you but is too shy to say anything

[RHCP-and-Nirvana-FTW]

If the question comes up you could say he's attractive but you're not into him because he's your friend. I feel he might respond better to that so it doesn't weird him out or anything. If there's something more there he'd hint at it eventually I'm sure. Don't want to throw too much at him at once. Haha