Waiting Till Marriage

[XmurderXchaosX]

How would you know what you had if you were intoxicated? And if you're so smart and know what's good for your body, wouldn't you know that sleeping around people, and especially while being intoxicated, increases your risk of getting disease? I can tell you don't really respect your body, and have no desire for others to either.

Just because I was drunk doesn't mean I don't remember what happened. Sure, it increases the risk of getting a disease by sleeping around. But sometimes you take risks in life to do things you enjoy. People take risks with possible consequences all the time. Just because you do so doesn't mean you don't have respect for yourself. And believe it or not there are these little things out there called condoms that prevent the transition of most diseases which I used with every single partner I have ever had. And low and behold, I got tested and have NO STDS! Being drunk does cloud your judgement but no drug will ever dumb me down enough to have unprotected sex with someone.


Just so you know, now I am in a committed relationship and am completely in love with my boyfriend. I plan on staying with him for the rest of my life.The fact that he will be the only person I sleep with for the rest of my life not only doesn't bother me but excites me.

And you can tell I don't respect my body? Oh really? That's laughable because you don't know me at all. You are just close minded and think your opinions on sex should apply to everyone. That's all there is to it. It's quite depressing really.

[Ali-31]

I had an orgasm.

boy done good

[pessimisticlemons]

It actually horrifies me that religion makes people think that virginity is a noble thing. Virginity is nothing more than sexual ignorance.

There is nothing especially honourable about virginity. Sex is part of the human experience, and part of normal human behaviour is to learn and experiment with sexuality and relationships. An honourable person is one who makes intelligent sexual choices, is honest with their partner(s), practices safe and consensual sex, and exercises good judgment in relationships.

By doing this, when you do eventually get married you'll at least understand how sex and relationships work. I cannot see the wisdom in marrying someone - committing to have sex with them and only them forever and ever - without actually having had sex and experienced the ups and downs of human sexual relationships.

woah what? There's more than one reason as to why someone might want to wait!

Personally I want to wait because I feel like it would be more interesting to experience love for the first time with someone that is probably not going to leave me sometime in the future. I hate the thought of giving my all to someone and then breaking up with them. Too much heartache for me.

Maybe that's just naive and silly of me, but personally from my perspective that's the wisest decision I could make for my own personal benefit. Everyone is different though, some people might feel that they'd be able to cope with that.

[lara_2day]

There's lots of things the Bible says we shouldn't do that we still do anyway. Why is it always this one thing that gets talked about the most?

[musicmaker96]

i'm definatly waiting because it more special if you haven't had/done it yet, and you won't feel horrible about it if your dating and you break up

[tbafaloukos]

A sexual relationship is very different from just a mental one. Sex changes everything. The way I see it, you can't really know if you can be with this person for the rest of your life until you have 'consummated your love.' Hell, for all you know this person is sexually repulsed by your body, which could cause some intense problems in the future. It's part of a healthy, mature relationship.

[Simone_97]

Thank God I'm not the only one!(: everyone around has had sex and I get called prissy or a prude for waiting /:

[DiscountHobo]

For myself, no sex until I'm married. I'd like to share my first kiss with my husband as well, but I think that may be asking for too much. Haha! Bottom line: I don't want a list of people that I've shared an intimate moment with -- I want one. People can do what they want though, this is just me.

[Ali-31]

I've had sex and I'm not married.

Personally, I think sex is a nice thing and consenting partners (of appropriate age) shouldn't be procluded from it. I would recommend it if anyone asked about it.

But if you don't want to do it, then don't do it and don't allow people to pressure you. Having sex when you don't want it is not a good situation to be in.

Everyone respect everyone else's decision

[Hefty_Fine]

I'm waiting for the right person. That's all there is. I'm not going to judge other peoples sex lives. It's what's right for you as a human. All I know is that if I truly love someone I think it's going to be natural for me to want to do it and I'm going to embrace that. If I know in my heart it's the man for me then I see no point in waiting. Sex strengthens the bond and I think that's important to keep the relationship going. I'm a sexual being as well and I'm not going to fight that. I'd also like to know what the sex will be like with that person before I decide to spend the rest of my life with that person. Sexual chemistry is vital and I would hate to marry someone whom I don't share sexual chemistry with.

[sam20r]

Seriously though, almost no guy will ever marry you if he hasn't even kissed you.

[hovla]

tbh i wouldnt even date girl before i at least kissed her, let alone get married to her.

[tbafaloukos]

agree with the two guys above me. Girls have this fantasy of only ever being with one man, but no guy will even consider marrying you until you have at least kissed, and after that the whole dating thing has to go well. It's simply unrealistic to want to kiss only one man and maybe even to want to only have sex with one man.

[Lm_Rich]

^^ just stop

[sawyer7864]

smart thing is to wait till marriage

[clarinetchick]

I'm waiting. Yeah, it's a lot because of religion. but I also have more respect for myself, and my body than to give it to anyone. I only want to be with one guy and one guy only. I don't care if others don't agree with me. It's their choice to give it up or to wait. everyone has their own opinion.

[XmurderXchaosX]

I don't understand how not having sex= respect.

Someone please explain that to me.

I have respect for myself that's why I fuck. Because sex is good for you and to deny yourself and repress your natural sexual feelings seems more disrespectful to me.

[XXShadowpuppetXX]

I'm not waiting for marriage mainly because I don't believe in marriage in the first place I just haven't had the opportunity nor have I found that one person I deem special enough to give my myself to in that way

[redleaf]

I lost my virginity when I was 16, but that doesn't mean I think everyone else should. It's everyone's own choic to do what they want with their virginity. Everyone should just respect each others' decisions.

[Stridar]

I don't understand how not having sex= respect.

And how does sleeping around = respect?