How do I convince him?

[AnnRene]

I am 21 years old and a senior in college. I have been together with my fiance for 5 years and I really want a baby. But I know that he does not agree with me. How do I convince him that we should?

[zachharrison2010]

You can't. If he doesn't want a baby, you are only going to strain your relationship by forcing the issue. Bring it up casually every few months, and no more.

[XsrdX22]

Don't have a kid 'till you're both ready.

[XxHeroinAndFirexX]

You can't convince him. If he's not ready then he's not ready. You should respect that. Never have kids until you're both ready and willing.

[Reginasfangirl]

You can't. Don't try. Parenthood is not something that one should enter into reluctantly. If you think he is likely to change his mind in the future, you can wait and bring it up casually a couple of times a year. If you want to become a parent soon or he seems pretty sure, you should not marry him. Respect that you have different goals and move on to find someone who has similar views.

[Kiralicious]

Like everyone else said, you can't force him. If he's not ready, don't force issue. Parenthood is something that needs to be approached with full commitment from both parties, not just one. If you try to force him into it, he'll end up resenting you and that's a really good way to destroy your relationship.

And don't try to pull any crazy bitch stunts, either, like "forgetting" your pills or stealing one of his used condoms and artificially inseminating yourself with a turkey baster.

[XsrdX22]

And don't try to pull any crazy bitch stunts, either, like "forgetting" your pills or stealing one of his used condoms and artificially inseminating yourself with a turkey baster.

Or wrapping your legs around him before he pulls out, and screaming "BE MY BABY DADDY"

[XxHeroinAndFirexX]

Or wrapping your legs around him before he pulls out, and screaming "BE MY BABY DADDY"

Hahah oh the images in my head

[zachharrison2010]

Or wrapping your legs around him before he pulls out, and screaming "BE MY BABY DADDY"

I seen that on FML awhile back.

[XsrdX22]

I seen that on FML awhile back.

I saw it way back on myspace lol

[Not_SoSweet]

Heres the plan. If you want a kid you should have one. Find a specimen on facebook or craigslist or adultfriendfinder who will get you pregnant. Have sex with that person the day before, same day, day after or a week within having sex of your fiance so that guy gets you pregnant. Let him get you knocked up and convince your fiance its his. Make sure the guy you pick is the same skin tone and same hair color as your fiance.

[Bertje]

^ You're evil and that's bullshit !
If he doesn't want to that's it. Wait untill you're both ready.