Talking to a MARRIED man.

[NurseStarr]

Names are made up for personal security.


So I recently went on the chat site purely out of boredom one day. You can get on webcam and mic. Well, the chat is focused on solely where you live so It leads you to a chat where people are close to your city and state. I actually met some friends on their from my old middle school. So I began going on their regularly.

1 week later a private message pop's up from this guy. It was just friendly conversation, and he seemed cool. We began to talk regularly about nothing really, He'd tell me about his wife, 4kids, and 6grandchildren. He has been divorced on 3 different occasions. I soon found out why.

I'm very friendly and flirtatious with both men and women, out of pure fun not because I'm trying to "start something" I told him that, and he very well knows that, He's 45, he can't be that stupid. So he continues to flirt with me and talk about how he wants to take me to lunch, and how he only lives 15 minutes away from me.

I expressed to him several times that I don't like him. His wife comes on there now and shes "checked up on me" even cussed me out, because she thought I was having some secret relationship with her husband. Smdh.

She still comes on there and says,"Hi Starr. " . I can't block him because I'd have to upgrade my account and I'm not spending money on a website. I've avoided all his naughty comments, and now hes try to seduce a friend of mine on there. He's pmed me saying,"I'm trying to PM Haley, could you tell her to respond."


Is this something I should bring to his wife?? I was involved for a month, is there something I could do?

By the way I'm 20. I don't know if that's important,. ALSO he still tries to get me to go out with him

Thank you

[XxHeroinAndFirexX]

I think she has the right to know.

[Kiralicious]

You should tell her that her husband is a scumbag.

If you were married and your husband was off trying to have cyber sex with multiple women when you weren't around, wouldn't you want someone to let you know so you would be able to leave him and find happiness?

[camzhere2]

What did you honestly think this 45 year old man was looking to get out of talking to you? A long life friendship? No
Dip out of that situation as fast as you can. Cut off all communication with this man. You and your friend need to make new Accounts asap. F*ck telling that lady about her husband. If she hasn noticed her husbands a creep by now then She s more naive then well yeah. Im giving this advice with a heavy heart and I hope you take it.

[mangoboi]

what chat site is this?

[Reginasfangirl]

Stop talking with him. He sounds super skeezy. I would also recommend taking a break from using that site or, at least, changing your username.

[NurseStarr]

I think she has the right to know.

It ended with me not even having to tell her, they are separating and he is now living from a hotel.

[NurseStarr]

what chat site is this?

It's a chat powered through or by Facebook.

[NurseStarr]

What did you honestly think this 45 year old man was looking to get out of talking to you? A long life friendship? No
Dip out of that situation as fast as you can. Cut off all communication with this man. You and your friend need to make new Accounts asap. F*ck telling that lady about her husband. If she hasn noticed her husbands a creep by now then She s more naive then well yeah. Im giving this advice with a heavy heart and I hope you take it.

I wasn't looking to gain anything from him, I had no second thought about it. It's a "Chat" Room.

[NurseStarr]

You should tell her that her husband is a scumbag.

If you were married and your husband was off trying to have cyber sex with multiple women when you weren't around, wouldn't you want someone to let you know so you would be able to leave him and find happiness?

My answer is quite obvious to this question. lol.

[XXI]

maybe his wife's a fucking trollop