is love worth it?

[sleakdancer]

What happens when all of a sudden after having a relationship with someone that they never told their parents about. You get banned from seeing them.unless you would convert to their religion, is it worth it? Cause this is probably the first time I allowed myself to fall in love

[XxHeroinAndFirexX]

depends how strongly you feel about your religion.

[Headcase-]

Religion is pretty big for a lot of people.
I can't conceive of the idea of altering my faith (well, in my case, the lackthereof) to align with someone else's.

[Reginasfangirl]

I don't think a love that requires you to change yourself that much is a very fulfilling love. Love is about mutual acceptance.

[Rokker420]

Well.. I've had my heart torn out of my chest, stomped on, burned, ripped to pieces, broken to shards, sawed in half, and I still have hope. I have hope that one day I'll meet that special someone, and i'll fall in love once again. I still am head over heels for my ex, but life goes on. Maybe we'll end up together some day, but you can NEVER give up. Giving up is the worst thing you could ever do. Just hang in there and I PROMISE it will get better.

[bushluvs]

I think it shouldn't matter what your religion is, if you truley love this person his or her religion will not matter.

[beatsantique]

NO
run as fast as you can

[TheDisintegrators]

If I felt a deep connection with the person I would feign religious conversion.

[hovla]

you are 16 you definitely dont want to change religion for relationship that will last couple of months at best.

[jboob]

um, first of all if you change religions for someone then thats STUPID because you don't believe in that religion anyway so therefore your conversion is POINTLESS.

what a fucking doofus. can i convert for love? bitch,just lie and say you converted. since you obviously don't have a relationship with god, im sure you'd have no problem lying to someone and telling them you're x religion when you really dont give a fuck.

[MysteryGirl44]

That's a decision that only you can make.

[zachharrison2010]

I think it shouldn't matter what your religion is, if you truley love this person his or her religion will not matter.

I disagree. My religion has taught me that matrimony between two people is the marriage of three people: the bride, the groom, and God. And the only church the provides matrimony within the parameters that I believe a real marriage exists is my own, so I could not marry someone who didn't accept my religion as their own.

[hovla]

I think it shouldn't matter what your religion is, if you truley love this person his or her religion will not matter.

thats so wrong and naive.

[Schadenfreude-]

um, first of all if you change religions for someone then thats STUPID because you don't believe in that religion anyway so therefore your conversion is POINTLESS.
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True say.

I think it's pretty disrespectful to a religion to just change at the bat of an eyelash. It's unlikely you truly accept it. I think if people can see past their religion but apply some of the lessons learnt from it. (tolerance etc) then a relationship with two differing religions can work. But I can see why in most cases it wouldn't because people allow religion to consume them.


So ATM no its not worth it

[sleakdancer]

Awww thanks guys..i had a terrible time trying to decide what to do. I'm still inlove completely and I'm leaving everything else to fate I guess.Planning to go to another country for 2years together might do us some good, hopefully.

[Porchepine20]

Nope love isn't really worth it.

[purplegal]

It's not worth changing your religion for, no.
I got asked by a Muslim guy in the library if I would be willing to change my religion to my husband's; I feel that I could probably convert from a Catholic to a Lutheran or whatever, but definitely not to Islam.

[Chickatawbut]

Your partner can come and go, but your faith should never leave you...

[starlightbaby29]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AsiT...layer_embedded
Helped me a lot when I came across this. Kinda stupid, but it got me through a rough spot when I was thinking a bit too much, and put me in a good mood :P

[Takeyourbestshot]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5AsiT...layer_embedded
Helped me a lot when I came across this. Kinda stupid, but it got me through a rough spot when I was thinking a bit too much, and put me in a good mood :P

Haha I love this :]