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    Default Why do men always have to pay for everything?

    They always pay for dinner, they always pay for the movie and they are always the one who has to buy expensive jewelry and shit.

    What is up with this?

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    I think the real issue here is why would you would let a bitch to fuck with your money?

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    Ugh in my last relationship we split the cost. I bought him gifts too. The only expensive thing I ever got was a $60 perfume for christmas.
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    Quote Originally Posted by randUMbnicole View Post
    Ugh in my last relationship we split the cost 50/50. I bought him gifts too. The only expensive thing I ever got was a $60 perfume for christmas.
    50/50?! You'd better be some kind of world-class bitch to demand that kind of cut!

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    They should pay for the first couple dates, and then you should pay for one here and there. They don't have to always pay for shit unless you let them. You could pay for things if you talk to them, ya know?

    I'd want 50/50 too, kinda, but right now I can't. So I let my boyfriend pay for dinner, movies, and what not.

    Wow, OP is a dude.
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    They probably feel like they have to...but it makes girls feel like all the want is to give them good stuff and it might make you feel like the man thinks you have no money or something

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    assests = security = i can father your children

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    Quote Originally Posted by APimp_NamedSlickback View Post
    I think the real issue here is why would you would let a bitch to fuck with your money?
    I'm not speaking from experience, I'm speaking from observation.

    I would never let a bitch have their way with my money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bites_ View Post
    Wow, OP is a dude.
    Is that weird or something?

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    Not true. When my bf and I go out, I pay for some and he pays for some. We both spent around the same amount for Christmas.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dany-filth View Post
    assests = security = I can father your children
    This.

    However, in today's society, you're a "nice guy". Start making the bitches pay their own way.
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    I wouldn't mind paying at all.
    Don't think.

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    its what a gentleman does. But it is nice when a girl offers to pay, or atleast split the cost.

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    Gentleman my ass. This isn't 1750 any more, it's 2011 for Christ's sake.

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    I hate the idea of the guy paying for everything. I don't care if he's really well off. It makes me feel spoiled and like I'm using money that he doesn't need to be spending on me. I can pay for myself and if it's something small, the guy shouldn't push to pay. I mean, it's a $2 drink. Just let me pay for it. Big dinners should be split unless it's like your birthday or something. If he invited you somewhere expensive, he should pay. But I would like to be able to treat my guy to dinner too. He shouldn't fight me on it. It's happened before lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by dany-filth View Post
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    cos girls have boobs.
    you clearly have nothing even close to that value but can attempt to make up for it with money.

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    in this thread title: massive overreaction

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    Quote Originally Posted by OriginalNick View Post
    Is that weird or something?
    No. I thought you were girl who was bitching about her boyfriend who pays for everything, but it's worse.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bites_ View Post
    No. I thought you were girl who was bitching about her boyfriend who pays for everything, but it's worse.
    Oh yeah it's so bad. I don't want to have to always pay for everything, and I dare to say that maybe the girl pay every once in a while.

    Line me up in front of the fucking firing squad.

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