I have never had sex and I want to give myself an orgasm will someone tell me how to
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08-23-2000 03:18 PM #1RoseGuest
08-24-2000 02:23 PM #2sweet_and_sexyGuest
i have not given myself one because we have men around for that.
but you could probably get something like a dick and you can decide the rest.
08-24-2000 02:26 PM #3sweet_and_sexyGuest
also im not even sure if someone could pleasure themselves to that point.because some of it comes from arousel and from that you need a partner. also u dont need to have sex to get one.
foreplay works too.
08-25-2000 08:35 PM #4nolic icu2Guest
its a little thing we like 2 call masturbating
im not a gurl but im guessing just masturbating and pleasure urself does it for u
08-29-2000 06:55 PM #5Y2JGuest
Okay, I'm not exactly a girl (well, I'm not a girl at all!) but you can have orgasms all by yourself. (it's just like the Dr Suess thing... "I can read it all by myself!" well, except that you aren't reading. Ahem. Anyways)
Just make sure that you're relaxed, and comforably alone. (this works for guys too unless you're just a little bit odd) 'Cause otherwise you're gonna be tense and nervous and it's never gonna happen. Another thing is to not be like, "Right. I'm gonna have an orgasm. I'm gonna have an orgasm. Dammit, I'm gonna have an orgasm!" Just relax, and let your fingers do the walking (as they say of our phone books over here). You might have one (or two, or three...) heck of a mindblowing orgasm, or you might not. But you'll know when you get there. Have fun!
08-31-2000 05:30 AM #6fishnetsGuest
k then, all you have to do is explore and find ure clitoris and ull b happy as hell
luv fishy x
08-31-2000 01:54 PM #7Save_The_ChickensGuest
or just use a dildo and u have arousal in seconds
08-31-2000 02:22 PM #8fishnetsGuest
cept ull never get an orgasm as good as u could get w/ sex
08-31-2000 08:31 PM #9Y2JGuest
Hey Fishy, I looked for ages, and I couldn't find my clitoris!
(somewhere, a little lightbulb goes off above Y2J's head))
...oh yeah, I'm a guy. Duh Y2J. Um, never mind. =)
And it's not always (or from what I've heard, it's not even usually) though intercourse that a girl's gonna get the so-called "best" orgasms. It can vary from girl to girl. For instance, one girl I used to go out with told me she was at her best when my tongue was doing all the work... (yes kids, this might sound yucky to some of you, but this is an advice thingy, remember?! =)
09-02-2000 07:22 PM #10tree_frogGuest
ya can't just jam sommat in there... you have to grind the clit (so to speak). Everyone orgasms differently, just experiment with touching yourself, try some stuff. Touch sensitive areas(not just the *****). Don't listen to anyone who says you need a partner. Just not true. Us girlys can do it all by ourselves. Like Y2J said, make sure your comfortable and alone. No distractions. Make sure you cut your fingernails.
Your clit is like a little nub if you go stright down from the bellybutton in to the slit with ya finger you should be able to feel it. If you can't find it straight away rub that area a little and it should come up. But like, you'll know coz it'll feel different. I'll tell you now, you don't have to have anything in the hole to get orgasm. Anyone who thinks that you do is just well, I don't know what planet they're from.
09-02-2000 11:31 PM #11Y2JGuest
Woo hoo! I got something right! ...I mean, of course. Ahem, ahem. (straightens tie and glasses, has a quick glass of water)
Anyways Rose, I hope all of this helps! =)
09-03-2000 03:23 AM #12fishnetsGuest
well done y2j that must b a first
09-03-2000 07:39 PM #13Y2JGuest
WAAAAAAAHH!!!! Fishy's so mean!
09-04-2000 12:39 PM #14fishnetsGuest
thats me im just an evil cow
09-04-2000 08:09 PM #15Y2JGuest
Aww... me sorry. Pwease pwetty pwease forgive meeee?
09-04-2000 08:14 PM #16Freedom_DancerGuest
This is kinda yucky... but jackinworld.com has some info for you. It's a site for guys, but they have a little section for chicks. It even has a diagram... lol.
No, I don't use this site, and I certainly wasn't looking for it on purpose. I ran across it on a diff message board a couple months ago before I knew of this place.
But curiosity killed the cat.
09-04-2000 09:15 PM #17Y2JGuest
Oh, suuuuuuuure. I know about you and your Barbie dolls... This may come as a surprise, but there's more down there than that Ken doll is letting you know =)
09-04-2000 09:19 PM #18Freedom_DancerGuest
09-05-2000 03:43 PM #19tree_frogGuest
Very interesting page. So I guess now everyone knows what I'm doing when I'm taping my foot on the floor... lol.
09-05-2000 04:02 PM #20Freedom_DancerGuest