My Bestfriend!

[sweetie_pie_420]

I'm bisexual but I have a boyfriend. I just realized that I like my best friend A LOT. And I don't want to tell her cuz 1.) I don't think she's bi. and 2.) I'm afraid of losing her because she's the most amazing best friend anyone could ever have. She's always there for me and would kill for me as I would do the same. We have never been mad at each other or anything and I don't want to ruin that. Has anybody else been in this situation or can you give me advice?? I'm desperate.

[J20a]

In my experience.. don't date friends. It rarely works and there is rarely any kind of bond/relationship afterwards.

Girlfriends/boyfriends come and go.. true friends are forever. Keep the friendship with her and have her as your someone who will be there for you.

[aprilANDtashLEZS07]

hey..... we are lesbians and before becoming girlfriends we was best mates and we have been together a year now it can work the best fing to do is do wat ur scared of she mite understand.... add us on: tasha_n_kieran15@hotmail.co.uk

[lesbianroxy]

i told my bestest friend i thort i loved her, and i didnt know she was bi! turns out she as and we got together! over a yr ago and we r still out now! ya never know! x

[sweetie_pie_420]

I just don't know what to do. I'm so scared of losing her.

[someonegood]

go for it just think even if she's not cool with it if you are really that great of friends she'll let it go and u can go on being friends...but think if you dont go for it you may regret it forever because if you are already best friends obviously u have a great relationship...what if she could be THE love of your life?

[AlleySinkWink]

Flirt with her. If she kind of... Strays away just stop.
If she flirts back, your chance might be that much better.

hm I unno.

[trendsetter_pooks]

nope i've never bin in that situation before
but i think you should just try to remain friends with her
because you dont want to ruin the friendship if it means that much to you

[niap123]

i fall for my best friend to it didnot end well.
puls it was hard,but we got througth .
i still love her but we are over we are still bestfriend but sometimes it can get hard. but it work out
u have chocies.
i am not going to not to do it but it not great idea in less u know she bi .

[katekillskids]

Well if you really feel strongly then you may want to take the risk. You never know have you told her you were on the fence?

[Lady_Ayumi]

Just tell her your bi, you don't need to tell her that you like her.

And see what she saids?

[sweetie_pie_420]

She already knows i'm bi. And we kinda flirt all the time. But I don't know if it's flirting. We do tell each other we love each other but that could be just because we're best friends.

[Jamers_x3]

I've been in this situation before and when they found out I liked them, it didn't turn out too well. I think you should keep things as they are. Thats just my opinion.

[lrishSurferMD]

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[sweetie_pie_420]

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What?

[katekillskids]

Wait why don't you break up with your boyfriend, get drunk with her one night and see what happends bahahaha. No drinking is bad but you should break up with your boyfriend if you like someone else alot. it just isn't fair to them.

[sweetie_pie_420]

There's no way I could break up with my boyfriend. He's my everything. I love him so much. I just like her a lot. I don't love her.