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Old 11-26-2009, 04:26 PM   #1
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So my boyfriend's roommate moved out, and they needed someone to fill the spot so rent wouldnt go up for them. He put an add in the paper, keep in mind i live in a small small town thats how we get word around, and got two calles. One was from a girl in another state going to move to the school at semester, and another was a girl already here. He calles me asking if i knew this girl, i said no, but i asked a few friends if they knew who she was.... ALL of the people i asked said "Yeah i know her she was in a ****!" Great.. Now im posed with a few problems

Weve been want to try a three some, and well hes thinking of asking her.... I DEFF dont want to.. gee be shown up. Hell no! haha

And should i trust her with my guy? Shes moving in while im out of town...

I dont like that shes moving in at all.... whatever shall i do?
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Old 11-26-2009, 04:28 PM   #2
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Umm, express the fact you don't like the thought of her moving in?

But at the end of the day, it's his place and he needs someone to move in with him and he's going to take the first half-way ideal solution. she's in pr0n, so she's going to have money for rent, which alot of people her age probably won't have. If you really love him, you'll trust him, but I do see your concerns.
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Old 11-26-2009, 04:44 PM   #3
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No i def understand.. plus thats money he can use on me haha jk... i just wont like him home at all without me... how else should i go about it or just let it go i gues... i dont trust her at all.. others have said she has a drug prob too
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Old 11-26-2009, 04:47 PM   #4
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No i def understand.. plus thats money he can use on me haha jk... i just wont like him home at all without me... how else should i go about it or just let it go i gues... i dont trust her at all.. others have said she has a drug prob too
This is where you're going about it all wrong.

When people rely on the hearsay of others, it causes more drama.

Why not give her a chance before assuming you can't trust her with your boyfriend and deciding what kind of person she is?FFS.

Besides, if you trust your boyfriend, it wouldn't matter if you could trust her or not because as long as your boyfriend deserves your trust, nothing will happen.
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Old 11-26-2009, 04:56 PM   #5
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understandable and thats what the both of us were going to do anyway...i still just wont trust her tho... hahah i dont trust any woman with him.... Women are coy and sly
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Old 11-26-2009, 05:28 PM   #6
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understandable and thats what the both of us were going to do anyway...i still just wont trust her tho... hahah i dont trust any woman with him.... Women are coy and sly
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Old 11-26-2009, 05:36 PM   #7
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understandable and thats what the both of us were going to do anyway...i still just wont trust her tho... hahah i dont trust any woman with him.... Women are coy and sly
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Old 11-26-2009, 10:45 PM   #8
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lol....she fucks for a living....
Not going to lie ur bf prolly isnt going to be anything compared to a **** she will get in a movie.

So i wouldnt worry, im sure she doesnt. PS....aids=bad, say no to the 3sum with her.
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Old 11-28-2009, 01:31 PM   #9
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If she really is in **** she would get her checked for STD's constantly.... I'd feel upset for a while if I were you if she moves in but you can't speak out your frustrations about it because if you do that shows you don't trust him.
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Old 11-28-2009, 01:34 PM   #10
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understandable and thats what the both of us were going to do anyway...i still just wont trust her tho... hahah i dont trust any woman with him.... Women are coy and sly
I think its him you don't trust, not the women.
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Old 11-28-2009, 06:52 PM   #11
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Just because she was in a p0rn doesn't mean she wants your man.
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Old 11-28-2009, 07:36 PM   #12
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Install hidden cameras, don't trust a word e says. The fact he wants a threesome makes her a liability. He may cheat. I can't help you. Just bad timing for you I guess.
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