you do NOT have the right to say that. you have NO IDEA of what we have been through.
you've said al this to me to mae me feel worse about the situations, just because you've not been lucky enough to find the person your ment to be with for the rest of your life, doesnt mean i havnt.

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.GraceSuttonandLiamSutton.
.23.01.09.
.i love you so much babe.

I find it incredibly amusing that you said in the last past ten months, you've been through more than some people on this site. You're either a moron or completely young to comprehend what you just said.

You're fourteen years old. You shouldn't be worried about getting engaged nor married. Shit, at fourteen, I had my first boyfriend. Yeah, at that age, I thought he was the one. Come to find out, he only wanted my virginity. Now, I'm eighteen years old and call myself stupid because back then, it was lust and infatuation.

People on a board shouldn't have to give you advice as to why you should get married. If you're really in love, then you know the reasons why. And marriage isn't something to take lightly. See, it's the younger generation who is fucking up the meaning of love. It's not being with someone for ten months, thinking you're madly in love and he goes to the 25 cent machine or gets you a cracker jack ring. It doesn't work like that.

I feel horrible for your boyfriend. At least he is basically telling you that he isn't ready right now. Stop pushing the fucking issue. Leave it alone.

You seriously need to stop worrying about engagements and whatnot. You need to be playing dress up and with baby dolls.

EDIT: And for one second, don't think about throwing it up that I don't have someone who "loves" me. I've been with my boyfriend for going on two years. And we are really in love. It's not puppy love.

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Stop whining like a little bitch. It's funny that you complain about someone making assumptions about what you've been through, then you turn around and assume it must mean they don't have anybody to love. Coming from someone who's been there at 14 and is now 20 and actually knows what it takes to keep a relationship going, you're not there yet. There comes a time in your maturity that you realize there's some validity in what older people tell you. Like I said, I've been there and dating a guy when I was 14 until I was 18. It doesn't always work out and the idea of, it's okay, we made it this far, we should be together, can lock you into a relationship when it goes sour.

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shine until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music, mother Mary comes to me,
speaking words of wisdom, let it be.

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http://www.teenspot.com/boards/showthread.html?t=597500

LOL you're 14 and naive. You more than likely wont be together in another year.
10 months isn't anything and I bet your friends engagement/marriage wont last either.
You don't need to get married nor engaged anytime soon.
My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 YEARS.
We wanna get married one day and we have thought about it.
Right now, we're just not completely ready to make that next step.
Waiting has never hurt anything so a few more years wont either.

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Well you see what I find funny is that I do in fact have the right to tell you that what you havr been through probably isn't that bad. It isn't going to be comparable to what an adult couple has gone through. You are 14 years old. You cannot even drive yet and you are worried about marriage. Seriously, you need to go enjoy being a kid. Don't make assumptions and then tell someone not to assume.
I have said nothing to make you feel worse. I have simply been honest with you. Another asumption to make you look like a dimbass, whell more of a dumbas then you already look like. I do have someone to love me, enough that he would actually want to marry me. Your boyfriend doesn't want to get married you cannot force that. I have been married for nearly 2 years.

YOU ARE 14!!! YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO MARRY!!!

I CANNOT wait for her reply. If we are getting one, she was just on.

What is it a competition or something 'who's experianced worse things in their lifetime?'

well you think what ive been through isnt bad, go on what do YOU think ive been through then. you'll NEVER get ir right !

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.GraceSuttonandLiamSutton.
.23.01.09.
.i love you so much babe.

This is further proving our point that you're too immature to get married.

so how old is this kid ur dating?

He's 14 too xD

apparently not.

I smell hypocrisy. You are saying they have no right to say these things becuase they don't know about "what troubling things you have gone through" yet you are saying they haven't met someone they truly care about. How do you know that? Have you met this person. I am thinking not.... GET OVER IT. You are 14 you should be focusing on maintaining a relationship. 10 months really is not that long, I agree your friends are idiots be engaged after 1 week but you should not being using marriage as way to prove the status of your relationship. You can't even get married yet unless your parents sign off on it. Just be in the relationship.

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xNoisexInxThexBasementx is my wife

for thoses of you that still dont understand he is NOT 14, he is 16

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.GraceSuttonandLiamSutton.
.23.01.09.
.i love you so much babe.

wowwww that makes like... absolutely no difference.

That makes a huge difference.

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? you really think theres that big of a difference between 14 and 16? cause seriously.. theres not.


EDIT: totally read that wrong cause i thought you quoted me lol so disregard that!

I do that all the time, so, don't feel bad.

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