My boyfriend broke up with me last night... he was furious because I snooped on his facebook because I was mad about some girl who likes him. I wasn't mad at him, I just get so frustrated when people like people who are in relationships and actively pursue them. He yelled and said it was an invasion of his privacy and he couldn't believe I'd do something like that and he couldn't believe I didn't trust him.
Then he texted me a few minutes later and said it was over, how can we be together if I can't trust him. I called him earlier today and he still said it was over and he's made up his mind.
The thing is... I saw him earlier that day and everything was perfectly fine. He has not been distant or weird lately or anything, he's not seemed depressed or upset with me and he kept going on about how much he loved me - so he's not been planning this for awhile. Also, he's frequently told me it's over in the past when he's mad about something and then we just get back together.

I feel like this time it might be different and I haven't talked to him since that phone call. This time is different from all the other times though, since I actually DID something to make him angry. I hope like it's like the other times and he'll get over it... it's just taking longer this time =(

My question is, do you think this is something to end a relationship over? Do you think he'll get over it?

I'm so scared =( He's told me that we're soulmates and he can't break up with me ever because he loves me too much... I know he loves me so what is going on.

Sorry this is so long =(

ummm... you didn't need to go on his facebook... if you already knew she was pursuing him you could have tried to intervene using your own facebook...

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A 21 year old should not be getting advice from teens. ShitZ dUmB nAhMeAn?
Just fuckin wait it out, the lil bitch I mean niggah should come around if he still wants dat pussy

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I know I shouldn't have been on his facebook, and I've apologized so many times for it.

I'm not actually 21, I clicked the wrong year =(

And now he's texting me wondering what I'm doing... I'm so confused =(

well if he doing that then maybe your back in

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I know it's not any of my business, but if he plays game like that, he's probably not mature enough to hold an actual serious relationship.

But anyways, you shouldn't have gone onto his Facebook. If he DOES take you back, which he probably will judging from the previous quote, then tell that bitch to back off your man. Get mean.

You seem to really like each other, so things might just work out.

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Personally, I hope he doesn't go back to you.
if you can't trust the person you're in a relationship with, it's a good indicator that you shouldn't be with that person.
Your entire OP was about how this girl is pursuing him.
Has he returned her advances?
Has he given you any viable reason to believe he wants to be with her rather than you?
I'm going to operate under the assumption that he hasn't since you haven't mentioned it and advise you to take this time and work on your self esteem issues. If you had more confidence in yourself and what you have to offer your man, you wouldn't be worrying that some other chick wants what she can't have.

Or I guess, now she can because you fucked it up.
Either way, it seems like neither of you are mature enough to handle a relationship.

Well anyway, we talked a lot and we're not together but we've decided to remain best friends. He said we'll probably end up back together once we sort our shit out but right now it's kind of stressful. I have no other choice but to believe him, and I really do think we can remain friends since it's impossible for us not to talk to each other and since we never let our relationship get to a point where we can't stand each other.
We still love each other, but we've realized that right now we're too immature ourselves and have to deal with it - after that we can go for it.
Since we'll be best friends we're still going to hang out a lot he says, I have to believe him again, and I think that we'll get back together sooner rather than later in that case. If that happens.
The only thing that could end our friendship is if I found someone else, because he said it would be too hard to imagine me with anyone else. I understand this, and I hope it doesn't happen. But I hope we're best friends until then if it does happen =)

says the bitch down with 3 ways.

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So?
we were both comfortable with it and we both enjoyed it.
I don't see how past activities in our sex life has anything to do with this.

He acts like nothing happened because nothing -did- happen. It was all a dream.

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