If you two don't care enough equally, really imo why give a flying fuck.
Let's say we're talking about friendship.
You call him every once in awhile and your friend never calls you. You're trying to hang on the last bit of relationship you have because you know you two won't even talk after you stop calling because your friend wouldn't either.
so why have a friend in the end who doesn't even care as much as you do?

It's cool, I come to TS almost specifically to ramble, so it's not like I mind.

That's pretty bad. In my situation, it wasn't her doing anything bad, just being afraid all of a sudden. It led to a bunch of shit afterwards.

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Not just in commerce but in the world of ideas, too, our age is putting on a veritable clearance sale. Everything can be had so dirt cheap that one begins to wonder whether in the end anyone will want to make a bid.

-Kierkegaard in Fear and Trembling

It's kinda different. Like, I floated the idea of me leaving past her yesterday, and she said it would hurt her if I did.

We're not apathetic, either of us, it's just very different to her and me.

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Not just in commerce but in the world of ideas, too, our age is putting on a veritable clearance sale. Everything can be had so dirt cheap that one begins to wonder whether in the end anyone will want to make a bid.

-Kierkegaard in Fear and Trembling

fucking sucks doesn't it

but im glad i didn't end up with the aforementioned girl, because she had so much emotional baggage and looking back on it she was just plain fucking weird

hindsight is 20/20 though

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A witty saying proves nothing.

But yeah, thank you all for your input.

Kinda helps to have objective opinions as I make my own decision.

Sleep time is go.

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Not just in commerce but in the world of ideas, too, our age is putting on a veritable clearance sale. Everything can be had so dirt cheap that one begins to wonder whether in the end anyone will want to make a bid.

-Kierkegaard in Fear and Trembling

my friend went through something similiar, he had what i guess you could call a "great" relationship with this girl then all of a sudden she got scared

she said something like how can i be sure you're the one when you're the only one i've been with

more or less got scared of the commitment

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That's what happened.

She just wanted to shed the commitment so she wouldn't be so anxious, but... you can't just switch from being in love to being best friends.

It was more like *brokenhearted me tries to be friends. Has no sense of humor, esteem, etc. Cannot interact properly. Loses bff spot. et cetera*

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Not just in commerce but in the world of ideas, too, our age is putting on a veritable clearance sale. Everything can be had so dirt cheap that one begins to wonder whether in the end anyone will want to make a bid.

-Kierkegaard in Fear and Trembling

just skimmed through the post,but from what i read she sounds really selfish to me. let go f her completley. i was in the same predicamnet as you. i thought being friends was better than losing them altogether. ivere alized that i was very unhsppy about notbeing able to be more.he was afraid of committing to me because 'he was starting college and thats the pferfect time to explore your options'. i eventually stopped talking to him because i ws tired of feeling up and down with him like a rolelrcoaster. i gav him an ultimatuim an dasked him if he could ever see us being more than friends. he said he wasnt sure, so i cut himoutof my life. i wantd a solid answer toput my heart at ease. best descion i ever made. i felt like shit th efirst 3 months, but iv moved on and now i feel like we can have the type ofr leationship he wants. did that make sense?ill fix ithis tomrrow

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i gaze at this pool of blood on the ground...

A freaking understatement. I still got trust issues, damn bitch. Hope she has like 358924 kids by now.

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