I recently have started college. My freshman year. During the first couple days I had made lots of new friends, everyone seemed soo cool and fun to be around. Beside the point I met this girl here. The first night i met her she "accidentally" sent me a text saying, " wow that boy across from me is hottt" I laughed and she turned red. After a couple of weeks, we started talking more and more. Then one night I asked her if she would like to give a relationship a shot. she started laughing and finally said yes after awhile of laughing and watching me sweat. The date was amazing we talked for hours and went back to her dorm and her roommate, whose her best friend from High School, was out of town. we made out for hours. I stayed over that night just talking to her the whole night. We had many nights like this later too. Then finally I asked if she wanted to have sex one night... She didnt say anything and just turned on her other side. I thought w/e shes not ready yet, fine with that. We went to sleep. the next day we barely talked, It just wasnt the same. I asked her whats the matter and she answered, "nothing" i knew something was so i asked if there was something would you tell me? she said, " maybe". I started to get aggravated then finally got her to go on a walk with me one night and told her if she was mad that i asked to have sex that I would NEVER force her into it.she just looked at me and kept walking.... Then a couple weeks later we dont talk to each other the same... she seems unhappy so i ask her if she wants a break up but to remember that I still like her alot. She simply replies, "no breakup" I smile and say so you do like me! she shrugs without a smile. I started to feel very depressed that night cause nothing had changed, I wanted things to be back like normal. So i would ask her to dinner,to walks, to movies, to haunted houses. was always no. so tonight i marched to her room and told her we have to hang out alone together cause I think I love you( the jist of it).... She looked at me pissed off... I said whats the matter? nothing just nothing. I said well can you at least tell me you still have feelings for me, she shrugged, after I left I started texting her and she wont answer back, she wont answer my calls. What do I do with a girl I think I love but will share no emotions or feelings with me. I feel like Im dying inside but i know if i breakup with her, I'm going to just be depressed. Want some different feedback than almost all my friends have been saying,"wow dude, dump her."

I think she feel like you only want sex from her.

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it sounds like you really like this girl. i don't think you should dump her, but you have to find some way to get her to open up. do you think theres a chance she just feels like you might be rushing things and doesn't really know how to tell you that?

just apologize and try if not just guive her time

It could be that, but you're in a tough spot. From your side of the story, it sounds like she's very immature. If she's not going to even try to communicate her feelings, there's not much you can do. Give it some time, but you should probably end it.

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How long did you wait before asking for sex?
It's definetly the sex thing, but there could be any number of reasons why It's upset her, maybe she's not ready or has been abused in the past. I can see why you're starting to get annoyed and frustrated cause she isn't telling you why. Just tell her exactly how you feel and if all you get is a shitty half-hearted response then I wouldn't waste any more time on her.

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In this situation, I'd keep that relationship going, but I'd cheat on her. That way if she's fuckin with you, then you wouldn't have been wasting your time on anotha hoe. If she grows up, then so do you and bye bye to tha lil hoe on tha side.

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I took some of the posters advice and asked her everything, Were in a bigger fight now... Last night she called me to go to dinner and I didnt answer cause of loud music...So after calling me she called her x boyfriend to go to dinner with. I called her saying sorry i missed your call and do want to hang out and she said "fine" I walk to her dorm and her and her x boyfriend are just in the room laughing away... I feel akward and furious at the same time... I play it cool and talk like everything is okay then when he left I lay on her lap and started talking to her about everything."Are you angry that I asked you to have sex?" she said, "nooo?" then there was a ten minute silence... I then asked her," When I told you I might love you...but I dont know, is that why your acting different?" she said, "nooo", another 10 min silence then I asked, "can u tell me what you were thinking when I told you that... I think i might be falling for you?" She looked at me and said, "noooo", I kept asking over and over please tell me, I dont care if its bad I just need to know... After an hour of nagging and her not saying anything at all she finally said, "scared" I said, " scared? that I like you so much? if you want to break up I'd rather do it now so were friends." she then went off, " No I like you still! Do I have to tell you fucking everything, why dont you be the guy in the relationship and dont care about how I'm Feeling or my emotions, swear I'm about to draw pictures of emotional faces and put them on my face just to let you know" I was shocked then I asked the stupid question (cause I play with her hair while she sleeps and it helps her sleep she said)" Do you want me to stay over tonight?" She laughed and said, "heh maybe tommorrow night." Should I end this? I really do think I'm close to loving her. and the first time i asked for sex was 5 weeks in. Is that really too early for being 18? Seemed it wasnt for all my other gfs. It's been 3 months now... and all my friends are shocked that I dont care that were not having sex I just want her to be happy...

Ho-ly fuck, your post is too long to care anymore...and I really wanted to help...

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oh for the love of god just end it she sounds like a waste of fucking space tbh so either nut up or shut up

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Okay well, she's obviously not the type of person to share her every feeling with you. And it obviously bothers her that you keep prying.

I think what you need to do to smooth things over, is to apologise for asking for sex too quickly (yes, it might've been too quick for her), and say that you'll never bring it up again unless she acts like/tell you that she wants to.. then also apologise for missing her call (because sometimes people get mad over stupid shit like that if they're already mad in the first place).. and um, yeah, that should fix it.. because she's obviously mad about one of the two, she just isn't the type to talk about it... so if you settle things without having her talk about it, it should be okay.

make her a mix tape...er. Cd or Playlist with songs that describe how u feel, I suggest fallin apart by the all american rejects. put some songs on there that she likes too, and give it 2 her and walk off and wait for her to text you or even walk up to her, just don't avoid her ok.

dont do this please

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Im not sure but I think in your first post you two started dating..then she goes out to dinner with her EX. Ehh