How come he hasn't communicated with me in a month? - TeenSpot.com

youreyecandy · 10-30-2009, 11:58 AM

My boyfriend got a job about a month ago that is full time. I understand that he is really busy, but that's no excuse to not send me a quick text to just ask how I'm doing and so we could talk. I haven't seen him in I believe over a month and haven't barely heard from him. Is this right?
I have lost a lot of interest in him. It's sad.

princess_katie · 10-30-2009, 12:02 PM

Sounds harsh, but if he goes a month without contacting you at all then he's probably because he's not interested, not because he doesn't have time. A full time job is not that time-consuming, unless by 'full time' you mean that he literally never leaves work.

The_Disasterpiece · 10-30-2009, 12:56 PM

He'll call when he's horny, don't worry.

IveGotTheNotion · 10-30-2009, 03:53 PM

Yeah that's definitely not right.

SAM237 · 10-30-2009, 03:55 PM

http://real-talks.mfbiz.com/#/topic-...eek/4536570244

youreyecandy · 11-01-2009, 11:03 AM

I asked him about it today and this was his response: "It's not easy to text when I'm working all day everyday."
What's your take on this?
I personally feel this is bs but I didn't tell him that.

TwilightXD · 11-01-2009, 04:42 PM

He is obviously trying to fade out of the relationship, its not that hard to send a quick text. Surely he has a lunch break?

Musical_Seduction · 11-03-2009, 04:51 PM

If you two never talk and never see each other then it isn't a relationship. Kick him to the curb and find someone new. Either 2 things will happen, he will wake up and see he is neglecting you and make a larger effort, or you will find someone amazing. Either way it is better than your current situation.

theycallmebritt · 11-03-2009, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by youreyecandy

My boyfriend got a job about a month ago that is full time. I understand that he is really busy, but that's no excuse to not send me a quick text to just ask how I'm doing and so we could talk. I haven't seen him in I believe over a month and haven't barely heard from him. Is this right?
I have lost a lot of interest in him. It's sad.

im in almost the same postion as u but my boyfriend doesn't work full time.. he has skool.. hockey practice and sum times work.. but he doesn't have practice all the time and doesn't work all the time and when hes not working or practiceing he has a game.. but other than that i do sum times get a hold of him but i kno how u feel i don't get a simple txt from him.. i mean it only really takes a few seconds to send a txt.. mean u kno its not like it takes 5hrs to send a "hi" txt message...

i just haven't lost ne intrest in him yet.. but the longer he waits hes not gona have me ne more.. and since then he beggeed me to take him back

youreyecandy · 11-04-2009, 01:16 PM

Hey, I broke up with him over a text message Sunday night! I haven't heard back from him since! LOL

AnEndlessSporadic · 11-04-2009, 01:19 PM

How long have you been together& how old are you both.

Seems to me like he doesnt have the balls to break up.

Anakin_k · 11-04-2009, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by youreyecandy

Hey, I broke up with him over a text message Sunday night! I haven't heard back from him since! LOL

I think there's a good reason why you haven't heard from him since, he obviously doesn't want you. In the end, that LOL is directed at you from him as well.

hi_im_gregg · 11-04-2009, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Anakin_k

I think there's a good reason why you haven't heard from him since, he obviously doesn't want you. In the end, that LOL is directed at you from him as well.

What he said. Right now he is probably throwing massive parties to celebrate.