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Old 10-06-2009, 12:59 PM   #1
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Default is it wrong i HATE my dad?

no- it's not "spoiled teenager " hate.
i'm far from spoilt.
the problem is, he's hardly ever here. he's either at the gym, at work, out with his friends or down the pub.
And when he IS here, he shouts at me, shouts at mum, takes my stuff away. and decides to put discipline into me when he's never here to reinforce it anyway!
i used to love him so much, he used to be my favourite family member, we used to be so close.
and latley hes been saying and doing things thats really hurt me.
and, i just HATE him.
is it wrong to hate your own dad?
have you got the same kinda relationship with yours?
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:03 PM   #2
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It's probably because you stopped sitting on his lap, where he can smell you without other people knowing what's going on.

To answer your question, yes. It is very very wrong.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:16 PM   #3
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Fuck that. My dad was only there when he didn't have to pay child support anymore. He didn't even come to my graduation. He's not a father, he's a sperm donor.

Also, stop resisting his nightly rapes and he'll come back around.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:17 PM   #4
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it has to be something sexual dosen't it
why did i think i would get serious answers on teenspot?
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:18 PM   #5
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Then you grew up to be an attention-seeking, self proclaimed teenspot troll. Thanks Jerry Springer.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:21 PM   #6
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Fine I'll give you a serious answer. Your dad is a failure as a parent. It's not wrong to want something better, and it's not uncommon to feel guilty for resenting how he treats you. Your situation sucks, so naturally you hate him. You certainly aren't alone. It's also normal to grow apart from your parents in your teen years. It happens to almost everyone. I can't tell you how to fix it but maybe it's comforting to know there are a lot of people in your shoes.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:24 PM   #7
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thanks
i like you better when your serious
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:25 PM   #8
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I'm resisting the urge to say show me your tits. But that would be wrong.

EDIT: Ack, you're 13. REALLY wrong. Ignore that.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:26 PM   #9
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Nope its not wrong. I've hated my dad my whole life for personal reasons.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:27 PM   #10
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I'm resisting the urge to say show me your tits. But that would be wrong.

EDIT: Ack, you're 13. REALLY wrong. Ignore that.
lmao
chris hansen dosen't let you off on edits
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:29 PM   #11
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Sigh. I'll just sit here quietly and wait for them to arrive.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:29 PM   #12
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want some of my brownies i made earlier?
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:30 PM   #13
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Yes, please.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:30 PM   #14
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The first part of my answer was serious.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:32 PM   #15
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The first part of my answer was serious.
yeahh, thanks for the first bit
my dad seems to be turning into a sperm donor

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Yes, please.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:32 PM   #16
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I spent ages 2-8 waiting on the doorstep for my Dad.
He never came.
I like to believe it's normal.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:34 PM   #17
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IF you're serious, that sucks dude. If you're not, it still sucks. I never had that problem and I get along ok with my dad.
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:35 PM   #18
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I spent ages 2-8 waiting on the doorstep for my Dad.
He never came.
I like to believe it's normal.
i kinda feel bad now for complaining.
there are people worse off than me,
but sometimes i'd rather he would leave and never come back :/
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:35 PM   #19
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I'm unfortunately serious. Mommy came home though
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Old 10-06-2009, 01:37 PM   #20
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Quote:
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I spent ages 2-8 waiting on the doorstep for my Dad.
He never came.
I like to believe it's normal.
i kinda feel bad now for complaining.
there are people worse off than me,
but sometimes i'd rather he would leave and never come back :/

edit: oops twice
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