my hair a mid copper brown colour and i wont hightlights just dunno what colour would suit me.heres a pic.not blonde hightlights i dont like blonde hightlights

http://s19.photobucket.com/albums/b198/londonirl16/?action=view&current=DSC01917.jpg

You should get lowlights instead, get them just below your top layer. Get it just a couple of shades darker than your natural hair color... It looks more natural and they're easy to maintain.