I know every girl has experienced this atleast once in her life and I'm
curious to know the stupidest or cruelest one that has happened.
Anyway I'm talking about being called a slut, for basically no reason.
Like wearing a cute little top, or a mini dress, or a skirt, and someone
labels you as a slut. Or I've seen girl get called a slut because she
kissed a guy the first day she met him? Stupid reasons huh? I'm a
19 year old virgin and have been called a slut a few times. I don't
dress unappropriattely, it's just something all girls will have to go
threw. So share a few of your own experiences:)

Iv been called a slut for the last 3 years by loads of people! Just because I used to hang around with lads! Iv just turned 18 and Im still a virgin how does that make me a slut.lol!!!

Iv been called a dicktease just because I sat down and smiled at a lad at the start of the night and was wearing 'sexy clothing'! He automatically thought he was going to be having sex with me by the end of the night!

Iv been called a slut for the last 3 years by loads of people! Just because I used to hang around with lads! Iv just turned 18 and Im still a virgin how does that make me a slut.lol!!!

Iv been called a dicktease just because I sat down and smiled at a lad at the start of the night and was wearing 'sexy clothing'! He automatically thought he was going to be having sex with me by the end of the night!

ya why is it we get called sluts so easily? The reasons you stated were so stupid.
You did not deserve that:)

a lot of girls call other girls sluts because they can't think of a better insult

a lot of girls call other girls sluts because they can't think of a better insult

lol that 2

thats true/

i do because all my friends are guys, so i must be having sex with all of them! and iv only slept with one guy, which was a long term relationship!

i do because all my friends are guys, so i must be having sex with all of them! and iv only slept with one guy, which was a long term relationship!

ya I find that wierd, every time I have a guy friend someone thinks
it's cuz I like him or he likes me or whatever...but I've never even
touched a penis:mouthshut lol

I don't call people sluts based off of the clothes they wear... I usually save that remark based on their actions. Say, if they're acting slutty.

I do however refer to girls who have a certain type of fashion as Tanning Booth Hooches. You can identify a Tanning Booth Hooch by their bleached blonde hair, mini skirts, abnormally tan skin, and large sunglasses.

That title's mainly a joke shared with my sis though, I'm not sure if other people use the expression.

I don't call people sluts based off of the clothes they wear... I usually save that remark based on their actions. Say, if they're acting slutty.

I do however refer to girls who have a certain type of fashion as Tanning Booth Hooches. You can identify a Tanning Booth Hooch by their bleached blonde hair, mini skirts, abnormally tan skin, and large sunglasses.

That title's mainly a joke shared with my sis though, I'm not sure if other people use the expression.

ya who knows, hoochies that's funny. But it's good that you get to know someone
first before labeling them something in your mind:)

Haters

Haters

what do you mean by that?
Your a slut? or your someone who calls girls sluts?
idk what you mean sry:(

I never wear anything that would make someone call me a slut. But I never call any girls sluts, unless they actually are. I can respect that girls with nice bodies care to show it off a bit. I think that's fine.

Not every girl has been called a slut.
Most? Yes.
Because like the other chick said, it's a generic insult people use because they're unoriginal.

I haven't.

I never wear anything that would make someone call me a slut. But I never call any girls sluts, unless they actually are. I can respect that girls with nice bodies care to show it off a bit. I think that's fine.

Well, this thread is also about that. You don't have to dress like one and you'll
still be called one.

Not every girl has been called a slut.
Most? Yes.
Because like the other chick said, it's a generic insult people use because they're unoriginal.

I haven't.

mmmm you will be, every girl has been called one atleast once.
I use to know this girl who was very stuck up, wore sweaters
to her wrists and skirts to her ankles, she got called a slut because
her makeup was so called slutty looking. Is'nt that stupid. A lot of
the times people won't call you one to your face 2. So you really
don't know if you've ever been called one or not.

My mom called me a slut the other day for going to hang out with friends and wearing shorts and a tank top (not even short shorts, mens basketball shorts!) And these friends consisted of: my best friend and her boyfriend, a few other friends and their boy friends (or "dates" for the evening since some of them don't believe in having just one boyfriend...) one single female friend, and two single male friends. And all of these people I have been friends with since diaper days, seriously. When your graduating class has less than 70 people in it, you go through dating options pretty quick and you have known everyone for so long that yo wouldn't consider dating most of them anyways... I did end up making out with one of the single guys there, but we had had a "thing" for a while, but we have never done anything but kiss, scouts honour! And we are together now anyways, and by the point in the evening when we made out we were officially together...

But yes, that was my own mother, I have been called a slut many a time, and I don't expect it to change any time soon, even though I am not such thing! I just have a lot of male friends, but I have never kissed a guy I wasn't in a relationship with, and that one time I mentioned was the only time I wasn't dating the guy for over a week before he got lip action.

Haters
i think wat she means is that girls that call other girls sluts or something along the lines of that are just haters because maybe their jealous of you or they just don't like you for some reason

i think wat she means is that girls that call other girls sluts or something along the lines of that are just haters because maybe their jealous of you or they just don't like you for some reason

ya I think your right

My mom called me a slut the other day for going to hang out with friends and wearing shorts and a tank top (not even short shorts, mens basketball shorts!) And these friends consisted of: my best friend and her boyfriend, a few other friends and their boy friends (or "dates" for the evening since some of them don't believe in having just one boyfriend...) one single female friend, and two single male friends. And all of these people I have been friends with since diaper days, seriously. When your graduating class has less than 70 people in it, you go through dating options pretty quick and you have known everyone for so long that yo wouldn't consider dating most of them anyways... I did end up making out with one of the single guys there, but we had had a "thing" for a while, but we have never done anything but kiss, scouts honour! And we are together now anyways, and by the point in the evening when we made out we were officially together...

But yes, that was my own mother, I have been called a slut many a time, and I don't expect it to change any time soon, even though I am not such thing! I just have a lot of male friends, but I have never kissed a guy I wasn't in a relationship with, and that one time I mentioned was the only time I wasn't dating the guy for over a week before he got lip action.


Ya you did'nt do anything wrong, you seem like a very cool girl.
Head up girl head up

Ya you did'nt do anything wrong, you seem like a very cool girl.
Head up girl head up

Yay! Someone thinks I'm cool! Wanna be friends? Haha, no, I am not stalkery... just, extremly hyper at the moment.... wootwoot... but for real, I couldn't give two shits about what my mother thinks of me anymore. She is just trying to make sure I have no life so I never get into trouble, because that worked out with my sister, but the other sister and my brother have lives and they get into trouble, so she is just trying to drive me crazy or stomp out any will to live I have left...

But that doesn't effect me at all anymore... because I just rock that way, and not many people can change the way I feel about something... haha I love life!:pink:

Don't look like a slut. Don't dress like a slut. Don't act like a slut- and you won't be called one. I've never been called one nor have any of my friends.

I've never been called a slut to my face seriously,
but possibly behind my back.

If it has though, it would have been for a stupid reason.
Either because I kissed a lot of boys in grade school, which should be looked past, because those relationship do NOT matter.
Or because I've been with the same guy for two years.
Or maybe just because I have big boobs and no matter what kind of shirt I wear, I show a little cleavage. ..
Because that really makes me a slut or something...

But I agree, girls use that just as an insult, they don't mean it literally, just meanily. (if thats a word)...

Don't look like a slut. Don't dress like a slut. Don't act like a slut- and you won't be called one. I've never been called one nor have any of my friends.

Dearie, I don't look, dress, or act like a slut, but I have been called a slut. People get jealous of what you have that they don't, or they just get mad. Insults are thrown, but rarely meant. But that doesn't mean that the innocent aren't accused far too often.

I call everyone a slut. My guy friends too. It's not a harsh word to me.

Dearie, I don't look, dress, or act like a slut, but I have been called a slut. People get jealous of what you have that they don't, or they just get mad. Insults are thrown, but rarely meant. But that doesn't mean that the innocent aren't accused far too often.

Agreed^^ I've never even touched a penis, acted slutty, or in my opinion
dressed slutty. But I've been called one a few times.

Dearie, I don't look, dress, or act like a slut, but I have been called a slut. People get jealous of what you have that they don't, or they just get mad. Insults are thrown, but rarely meant. But that doesn't mean that the innocent aren't accused far too often.

p.s. love the SV thing:D

one day in dodge ball i threw a ball at this kid and he called me a whore and a B***h.

I was like okay.
then i wrote him up for harrassment.

one day in dodge ball i threw a ball at this kid and he called me a whore and a B***h.

I was like okay.
then i wrote him up for harrassment.

That was great and it kicked ass, you should always stand up for yourself.
So what happened to him?

People tend to call me/my friends slutty when we wear bathing suits in the FREAKING SUMMER. Sorry if we look good in them?

But I agree, girls use that just as an insult, they don't mean it literally, just meanily. (if thats a word)...

LOL meanily.

Slut is just an insult for girls that you don't know well. For example if you called a girl a bitch, your friend would say, well what did she do? Versus if you called a girl a slut, well look how she dresses!

I've been called a slut like a million times, in fact half of my school thinks I'm a prostitute. You get over it.

I got called a slut off a girl who got pregnant at 14!!
and the reason was..I had big boobs
yeah so because I CAN obviously control the way my body grows, I'm a slut
WTF?!?!
So yeah I'm a slut when I have never wore "revealing" clothes, I don't sleep around or flirt with every guy I see. But you know obviously being pregnant at 14 and not knowing who the father of your child is makes you so pure and innocent.
:rolleyes:

Me and my friend call each other sluts all the time, mind you we insult each other all the time, were a little crazy...

Seriously I have no problem with being called / calling someone a slut. It's just a word... After being verbally abused for 3 years by people walking down corridors, words don't mean so much anymore.

I got called a slut because I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 9 months, I've only slept with one guy and ok I was a little young... 14... yeah scrap that I deserved it.

My parents call me a slut all the time, its funny, I'll be at the pc and my mum will call me a slut =]

Moral : Don't be easily offended, everythings funny then =]

Meh, the only girl I call a slut is a girl at my college (or who was before she dropped out) who tried it on with my boyfriend. Yes, she wore tiny tops and shorts/ skirts, but its also a personal thing. Im not going to view he person who tried it on with my boyfriend as a nice, lovely girl now, am I?

ok i dont think were talkin about when your best friends call you a slut... me and my guy friends will call each other skanks and sluts as a joke.
i can only think of one person calling me a slut and sadly that was my mother. its only started quite recently actually when i spent the night with a guy, and honestly all we did was sleep.. ugh i hate that my mom judges me but whatever. see he called me all super depressed and shit and talkin of killing himself, and well i told him to come see me we ended up talking in his car until like 2 am and he asked if i would just stay with him tonight, so i said sure and we slept in his car. the next day my mom refuse to talk to me and she says i'm a slut and im sleeping around, when infact im 19 a virgin and dont plan on having sex till im married. i wish she would just trust me. i even told her exactly what happened, you think she would be happy with me being such a loyal friend and keeping someone from ending there life, but nope she just labeled me a slut.

I guess i've been called a slut for being flirtywith guys a couple times by friends
but just shrug it off cause i know i'm not
mostly I'm the one labeling sluts cause of their permiscuous actions

Ya it's ok to call your girlfriend slut or bitches, when playing around I mean.
But what I'm really talking about is how people label you as a slut over
nothing. It's pretty stupid, and yeah parents go to far when calling they're
own daughters that. My step mom called me every name in the book:rolleyes:

I got called a slut off a girl who got pregnant at 14!!
and the reason was..I had big boobs
yeah so because I CAN obviously control the way my body grows, I'm a slut
WTF?!?!
So yeah I'm a slut when I have never wore "revealing" clothes, I don't sleep around or flirt with every guy I see. But you know obviously being pregnant at 14 and not knowing who the father of your child is makes you so pure and innocent.
:rolleyes:

yeah that's bullshit:mad: ! I have a friend who's pretty gifted in her chest section;]
and she gets called a slut regularly. Don't worry I think it's jealousy. I'm an A cup
and I'm very satisfied with my body, when people call you names because of
your cup size it must mean that they are jealous:)

People tend to call me/my friends slutty when we wear bathing suits in the FREAKING SUMMER. Sorry if we look good in them?

ya I know, I've been bashed in for wearing a skirt and a shirt that showed
my stomach. I wasn't showing anything inappropriatte, yet I still got called
a slut.

yeah that's bullshit:mad: ! I have a friend who's pretty gifted in her chest section;]
and she gets called a slut regularly. Don't worry I think it's jealousy. I'm an A cup
and I'm very satisfied with my body, when people call you names because of
your cup size it must mean that they are jealous:)

Lol yeah, I don't let anything the girls round here say about me get to me because they'll call me a slut when every friday or saturday they wear the shortest skirts and practically have their tits hanging out just to get guys attention...funnily enough most of the girls round here have been pregnant before they even hit 16. Lol I just find it hilarious when some 15 year comes upto me with her baby calling me a whore.

what do you mean by that?
Your a slut? or your someone who calls girls sluts?
idk what you mean sry:(


Are you calling me a slut? wtf?
Im not & I dont call other girls sluts either.
What I meant was normally the girls that call other girls "sluts" normally dont know the girl or cant find a proper insult. So they just throw out the word "slut" or "bitch." Its normally done by girls that are jealous but wont admit it. Girls that "hate" on other girls sometimes without reason or due to jealousy(sp). Hince the word "haters" in my original post.

I dont think I've ever been called a slut.

As for some one else I may say "your dressed like a slut.." or something like that.

Yeah, it has. Whatever, I don't care.

Agreed^^ I've never even touched a penis, acted slutty, or in my opinion
dressed slutty. But I've been called one a few times.

If either of those girls are you in the picture, then IMO you DO dress slutty. Not calling you names, but if it bothers you that people call you a slut, cover up.

If either of those girls are you in the picture, then IMO you DO dress slutty. Not calling you names, but if it bothers you that people call you a slut, cover up.

are you fucking kidding me? I'm not showing anything in this<< pic other than
my belly shows a little. You must be easily jealous or something:mad:

If either of those girls are you in the picture, then IMO you DO dress slutty. Not calling you names, but if it bothers you that people call you a slut, cover up.

also, thanks because your a great example of what I'm talking about.
Girls get easily labled slut because they look good. This person says
I dress slutty and I'm in a jacket and jeans wtf? Retard huh?:angry:

I called a girl a slut be4. it was because I was mad at her. We were on this trip. In a few days we were going to meet up with another school. My friend liked her, but they've only known eachother for a few days. She told my friend she wouldn't go out with him because she hasn't known him for very long. When we go pick up the other school, she immediatly hangs out with this guy from that school. We've never met this school okay. Well the dude asks her out and she says yes. yet she only knew him for like........a day. So I got mad at her and called her that......at school she acts like shes all that too.

justanopinion... You said that the fact you've never touched a penis proves you're not slutty, right?

...But you're a lesbian.

That doesn't make any sense.

Nah ive never really benn called a slut before, ive been called a whore by my ex which was quite hurtful. but thats it really.

im called a slut because im " just the friend" with all the boys.
like i become very close to them in a non sexual way
when they dump there gf's
the girls think its cuz of me (well sometimes the guy did end up liking me but still i didnt tell him to dump the girl)
so i get called a slut for that.
and because of the fact im friends with so many guys and it seems like im sleeping around and ive been called a slut for that. im a virgin. and rarely ever hookup with guys.

girls just get jealouse.
if dress cute with a little skin ex tank and short shorts or something they may say something stupid in the end its just summery and theyre probably jealouse of the shirt and dont want to admit it. and its oviously not friends because friends wont be that mean.

justanopinion... You said that the fact you've never touched a penis proves you're not slutty, right?

...But you're a lesbian.

That doesn't make any sense.

No, I meant that it is stupid to call me a slut when I've never even touched
a penis. And yes although I label myself a lesbian, I sometimes consider
guys as an option. It gets very lonely here and the only lesbians I ever meet
are no offense bull dykes, and I'd rather date a girl who, like me, enjoys being
a girl. I feel that if I meet someone who really likes me and treats me right
then in the end looks color or gender really doesn't matter:)

I hope I answered your question fully.

P.s. Also, I treat girls like I do guys, I will not get intimate with a person in any way
unless they are my lover and we have a relationship.

my mom called me a slut once too.....she told me i looked like i belonged in a whorehouse. i looked at her, shrugged and walked out the door. i was also called a slut for sleeping with my then-bf of 2 years. i've been called a slut so often that i don't even care, its pathetic. that insult shouldn't be used as lightly as it is.

my mom called me a slut once too.....she told me i looked like i belonged in a whorehouse. i looked at her, shrugged and walked out the door. i was also called a slut for sleeping with my then-bf of 2 years. i've been called a slut so often that i don't even care, its pathetic. that insult shouldn't be used as lightly as it is.

I completely agree, it's used like we're suppose to all be virgin mary's or something.
I don't understand why I was ever called one, I could be Virgin Mary reincarnated.
But it especially upsets me when parents use it.

First post: inappropriately ...not unappropriately . sorry i'm like OCD with incorrect spelling =],
but yeah, I would call a girl slutty, because of her clothing or actions, but not call her a slut. There is a difference and you should take care not to misconstrue the two. Besides, have you seen prostitutes on a corner? Have you seen what they wear? That is why short skirts/dresses, low cut tops are associated with sluts. And if you know that people call you a slut wearing such clothes then why complain after wearing them ? All for feeling sexy, but be able to handle the consequences. I mean everyone likes to feel/look [or both] sexy once in a while lol and that is one way to express it, but if its constant expect rumors to fly.

No, I meant that it is stupid to call me a slut when I've never even touched
a penis. And yes although I label myself a lesbian, I sometimes consider
guys as an option. It gets very lonely here and the only lesbians I ever meet
are no offense bull dykes, and I'd rather date a girl who, like me, enjoys being
a girl. I feel that if I meet someone who really likes me and treats me right
then in the end looks color or gender really doesn't matter:)

I hope I answered your question fully.

P.s. Also, I treat girls like I do guys, I will not get intimate with a person in any way
unless they are my lover and we have a relationship.

I don't get that. You can be a slutty lesbian .
I mean being a slut isn't limited to straight girls and doesn't necessarily involve guys.

Well I told this one girl to shut up and quit running her mouth and like a week later she writes me this note telling me i'm a slut and that I need to shut my mouth. I confronted her and was like if u think i'm such a slut then say it to my face and don't write in some note. Then she denied the whole thing. She lies all the time.

also, thanks because your a great example of what I'm talking about.
Girls get easily labled slut because they look good. This person says
I dress slutty and I'm in a jacket and jeans wtf? Retard huh?:angry:

I'm not saying your a slut, I'm saying you shouldn't wonder why some people do when in your profile pictures you are a. wearing makeup that looks like you belong in a nightclub b. playboy bunny on your wall c. posing seductively d. wearing a shirt that covers a tad more than a bra. If you got rid of all that noone would call you a slut.

I'm not saying your a slut, I'm saying you shouldn't wonder why some people do when in your profile pictures you are a. wearing makeup that looks like you belong in a nightclub b. playboy bunny on your wall c. posing seductively d. wearing a shirt that covers a tad more than a bra. If you got rid of all that noone would call you a slut.

It's fucked up that I can't just wear what I wanna wear,
like what I wanna like, and wear as much eye liner as
I wanna wear without being called a slut. Posing seductively?
Your a stupid jealous bitch:D

I don't get that. You can be a slutty lesbian .
I mean being a slut isn't limited to straight girls and doesn't necessarily involve guys.

Like I said I'm a virgin, which means there is no way I can
be a slut. If you want to label me as a slutty virgin go ahead,
I'm not the one who will sound stupid:)

Ok well im 13 n ive never done ANYTHING worse than kiss a guy n my best friend over here makes out with a guy after going out with him for a half an hour NOT EVEN! i was basketball manager for the boys team this year and guys from other teams just came up to me n gave me their number so im like ok w/e n i inded up becoming best friends with one of them!!! n my teachers daughter goes to the same school n he got offended by that and called me a slut to my face n i got him in a lot of trouble by our principal! N ive dated like 5 guys n ppl still call me a slut n a skank n everythng else....i dont know what to do but ppl think im such a bitch n a whore but im really not!!! N all my friends say they just say it cuz theyre jealous but now im starting to think they r not! Ive been popular since i was in preschool n ppl get sick of me being all caught up inmyself...the only reason i do that is cuz people r always bringing me down with rude comments like "omg theirs the school slut" even other shcools know about this n i dont know what to do!!! so dont feel bad im only 13 n i get called a slut everday!

i get called a slut and a whore all the time. its realli hurtful. :(
but like for no reason. like wen i wore a bikini.....TO THE BEACH!
and cause im mates with a lot of guys, and when i play football or muck around with them i get labelled a slut and a tease. :(

i wear bikinis a lot but i only had one bf ever n he is with me now n i love him :)