yeah so you all think that mini skirts that show your ass is hot?or shirts where you can see your whole chest? i bet you do. goddamn!!!one of these days, some 40 year old guys is goin to see ya and try to rape you because your sooo hott! yeah i am not very sure that ur parents will be proud, and your effing teenagers for christ sake. i dont know what the deal is but if you want to become a stripper when you grow up or a prostitute..go ahead if you know the consequences. they have gotten killed, stabbed, sick..ect.! i am not sayin that you all are goin to be like that. but that is how you are all presenting ur self.

you are all beautiful, and there are other ways to express yourself, and make yourself look good, with less harsh consequences. now you all may think that i am a stuck up bitch, but i am not. i am just trying to let you know, that looking like a total slut is NOT THE ANSWER!

so if you have any opinions on that...plz...write back because i want to know how you feel about my opinion

Well, I think it's a style, just like punk, or prep. Plus it's the inside that matters. :D

yeah but the consequences are worse, and thier reputation is not good!

Consequences for punks and emos are pretty bad over here too!! They get mobbed all the time. SO do gangstas, shot.

yeah but they dont bother me as much though!!!!

?? What?

punks and gansters..they dont bother me that much,it is mostly the sluts

Well they are all the same. And Well I think the style is cute. IF they carry the risk of being raped for whatnot then they should always carry a weapon or stay with a large group of friends. Also I might add I dress like that and I have never been raped, or anytihng like that. Comments, yeah but everyone gets them.

i am mean ur opinion....just dont walk around with ur ass hangin out ur skirt that is probably not a skirt....just tryin to let you guys know

No, my ass is covered. :) Nice lil chat we just had.

They can dress however the fuck they want. How does it affect you? It's their choice. The "you're asking to be raped" argument has been done over and over and beaten down over and over. It's none of your business what other people choose to wear. They make conscious decisions just like everyone else, and you're not doing anyone a favor telling them how they should and shouldn't dress according to your standards of what is "slutty".

i know it is none of my business but it worries me when people do that . because i had a cousin who was like that and she was raped twice. i am not sayin they absolutely positively will, but it could and the percentages are higher with ppl that dress like that....not tryin to be a bitch

Nonetheless, there's nothing you can do about it, and you shouldn't tell people what they should or should not wear. It's not as if they're not aware of the kind of attention it attracts.

Dress how you want. If it's not affecting you personally, like with your cousin, it's not your job to be the fashion police and professional Artemis all rolled into one. Mind your own business when it comes to others.

With your cousin, that's something you need to talk to her personally about considering your concerns. Even then, you shouldn't be telling her to dress more "lady-like" or whatever, but maybe advising her in better defense of herself. As mentioned above, traveling and staying in groups and knowing how to defend yourself are important for any girl out in most public places.

i am not sayin they should be lady like...they can dress like a guy 4 all i care.

but ur right bout the groups thing

Nonetheless, there's nothing you can do about it, and you shouldn't tell people what they should or should not wear. It's not as if they're not aware of the kind of attention it attracts.

Dress how you want. If it's not affecting you personally, like with your cousin, it's not your job to be the fashion police and professional Artemis all rolled into one. Mind your own business when it comes to others.

With your cousin, that's something you need to talk to her personally about considering your concerns. Even then, you shouldn't be telling her to dress more "lady-like" or whatever, but maybe advising her in better defense of herself. As mentioned above, traveling and staying in groups and knowing how to defend yourself are important for any girl out in most public places.

Agreed

Let me guess, you love jesus? And people that love jesus would never lower themselves to those standards right?

Let me guess, you love jesus? And people that love jesus would never lower themselves to those standards right?
This isn't the Religion forum. Don't start making asshat assumptions and trying hold them against people when it has next to nothing to do with the original topic.

No one gives a shit.

And your the one with a stupid "emo" icon. That style is just as bad as a slut's style.

you know what.. im kind of sick of seeing threads aboutpeople complaining that girls are dressing like sluts. if they dress like sluts it doesn affect you. so get over it.

To the girlie whom posted this thread. Get over it!! people whom dress like that arn't gonna stop just because you say so. I dress hot yet reserved. Get the bug out of your ass!

I dont think girls who dress 'slutty' would drastically increase the chance of one getting raped. Nuns get raped. My point being a rapist usually has a twisted mind set that isn't directly focused on looks but more the result to however gets the job done.

How exactly does this affect you? It's like people who complain about "fake" bisexuals. What the fuck do you care? Honestly, you sound like a loser with nothing better to do.

Haha everything has consequences, if your emo or gangster or preppy or modest. Either way if your a girl there is the possibilty of getting raped for one and for two who are you to judge what we wear? I might wear short skirts occasionally so does that make me want to be raped? If thats a consequence of wearing a skirt then i guess girls shouldnt wear dresses either, should we ear over alls and turtle necks? The guy that rapes the girl isnt always looking at her for her clothes, just because YOU think that doesnt mean that anyone else is going to care. You cant tell me that you've never made a mistake with a shirt you wore or a skirt you wore. What i think abojut your opinion, its pointless.. no ones really going to listen to anything you say on here.

Everyone get over it! people can dress as the choose...if they want to dress like hussys let them if they want to dress preppy let them...if the want to wear a hat their entire life let them...everyone is different and can choose the way they want to dress,live, and work. Also the argument about the "rape" it's not always the clothes that make men want to do something that terrible. It can be facial features, age, hair, skin colour. It's not always the clothes. In many instances it's the look of vulnerbility not the clothing! LET THEM DRESS THE WAY THEY WANT!
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