My best friend is absolutely stunning whereas I am just average. She is tall 6"1 with long blonde hair in big huge green eyes. She has perfect skin and a good body. She also has an amazing personality. Me on the other hand, I am small 5"2, long dark hair, olive coloured skin and brown eyes. I suppose I've got pretty good skin as well and a good body. The only problem is whenever I'm with her guys don't even notice me. She's my best friend and I really love her and I wouldn't sacrifice our friendship for anything but it's now at the point where I try and stop her coming with me when I want to go and meet guys. Anyway my question is how can I make myself stand out more??? Sorry this was a bit long but i really need you help. Thanks!

hasn't anyone got any suggetstions??!

Don't worry. Just keep being yourself, guys love it when a girl is herself. Eventually you will get a guy that see's passed her.

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what???

Don't you worry about it. Be content w/ who God made you and be the best you that you can be, Don't get caught up in that jealousy game. & if those boys won't go after you-- simply go after them! Be aggressive!

DONT be aggressive. That can often make boys find you annoying, bitchy, and/or clingy. Try finding out how to accentuate yourself with clothes that flatter your body, haircuts, makeup, things that make you look your absolute best. God gives true beauty out to only a few people but if they don't know how to work with it, then they look bad anyways. However, if an "average" girl like you masters how to make herself be her ABSOLUTE best, she will by far surpass the other girls. Also, confidence is a major turn-on for guys so be confident about yourself and stop worrying about your friend and what other people think of her and most definitely...STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO HER. She's a different person than you with different features, there are more than one type of beauty out there, recognize your own.

most guys dont date girls taller then them..no matter how good she looked 6'1 is taller then me so..yea

I never thought that being freakishly tall was attractive...wow you must look like a teeny tiny person next to her! Anyway I always thought that blondes were kind of whishy washy looking, you know since there isn' t much contrast between their hair and skin color. I never thought green eyes were attractive either. Your friend kind of sounds ugly to tell you the truth,....my friend has long blonde hair and green eyes (but shes like 4'11 lol ) and shes kind of ugly :(

Don't you worry about it. Be content w/ who God made you and be the best you that you can be, Don't get caught up in that jealousy game. & if those boys won't go after you-- simply go after them! Be aggressive!

I'm not jealous of her shes my best friend it's just it can get really annoying always coming second best.... if you get me.

I know how you feel.
except im the one whos really tall and blonde hair but im really really super shy and had this friend (we grew apart lol) and she wasn't the prettiest girl but she was soo outgoing and shes had like 5 boyfriends and i havent had any (lol i know im pathetic).
I say just be yourself.

Hmm...according to all the guys I know, they'd go for a 5'2" chick over a 6'1" one with no hesitation.

Don't stress about this, really.

She'll probably become a whore, anyway.

My best friend is absolutely stunning whereas I am just average. She is tall 6"1 with long blonde hair in big huge green eyes. She has perfect skin and a good body. She also has an amazing personality. Me on the other hand, I am small 5"2, long dark hair, olive coloured skin and brown eyes. I suppose I've got pretty good skin as well and a good body. The only problem is whenever I'm with her guys don't even notice me. She's my best friend and I really love her and I wouldn't sacrifice our friendship for anything but it's now at the point where I try and stop her coming with me when I want to go and meet guys. Anyway my question is how can I make myself stand out more??? Sorry this was a bit long but i really need you help. Thanks!

Errr i kinda think 6'1 is a bit tall LOL. Id much prefer someone at 5'2.

Yeah I'd rather be on the shorter side too.. I'm 5'4" and wouldn't want to be taller! Just because you think she is the stunning one doesn't mean guys are thinking the same.. you sound like you would be pretty as well!! Just be outgoing and friendly.. don't show that you worry about yourself or guys might think you are insecure or shy. Just have fun and don't think about it! Wear some cute clothes that make you feel confident and find styles that work for you!!!

If you're ugly and she's pretty, you'll never be better in the look department. That's the truth, no matter how harsh it seems, sorry but get used to being second best.

Errr i kinda think 6'1 is a bit tall LOL. Id much prefer someone at 5'2.

I'm 5'2
:)

Thanks everyone!!! I suppose now I've listened to what uz all have said I've realised that my biggest problem was actually my confidence. I went out with her the other day and I noticed that it wasn't only her that attracted attention from guys but me to hehe