ok i am just wondering why guys dont like me i mean i am a punk rocker chick i almost always wear black i wear dark make up dark clothes i am a fun person to be around and i realy cant seem to find a guy so can you maybe help me pretty pls and thank u

if u need a pic of me just ask i will post one ..

Post a pic...i wanna see what u look like...and u seem like a nice girl, so those stupid guys are definately missing out! :)

ugly me

http://tinypic.com/view/?pic=95rmlg

Maybe cause you clothes and makeup kinda scare people away like they might think you are mean or moody just by the way you dress. Try joining a bunch of clubs when school starts and dont go to a club just cause you think people will like cause you are in go to a clud you like and think you will laeran and have fun it.

Because you're probably trying too hard...and you sound like a poser.

i am in rotc thats about it we have gay clubs here lol but i mean i won,t change for any one i don,t act mean or anything i realy don,t like myself i think i am ugly

What is rotc? Anyway, like, if you think that you're ugly and stupid other people will think that you're ugly and stupid. Thats how it works...

wtfe i am not a poser thats shit

rotc is the air force and army and stuff .. but i can,t help but think i am ugly i don,t think i am stipid after all i am gradutating

Well I never said that you thought that, I just gave an example.

But if you don't like act happy and confident and comfortable with yourself and stuff people don't like that

well i am ugly how can i be happy when i look like crap

i dont think that you're ugly but i cant really change your opinion of yourself...and anyway real happiness is like, not with stuff and all...if you're like good looking and have tons of money you're like happy for some time but then it doesn't mean anything anymore it would get boring....and so like yeah.

sorry it was hard to word that lol

well i am not good looking or have tons of money i mean my friends told me that guys are not attracted to goth chicks and if i change how i dress and did my hair and make up i whould have tons of guys wanting me // which i don,t believe

i dont think that you're ugly but i cant really change your opinion of yourself...and anyway real happiness is like, not with stuff and all...if you're like good looking and have tons of money you're like happy for some time but then it doesn't mean anything anymore it would get boring....and so like yeah.

sorry it was hard to word that lol
u know what ur just jeulous of her cuz shes pretty! :rolleyes:

who is jeulous of who me of her or her of me ??/

Confidance plays a big part in how attractive you come across to other people. If you act like you're good enough, guys will start to feel the same.

You might need to be a bit more outgoing with guys too, flirt with them and just be friendly so they don't get the impression that you're a dark and moody soul by the way you dress. estrella123 makes a good point there.

I'm not saying change your image, just don't let your image put you into a stereotype.

i am scared to flirt with them i don,t let any thing put me into stero types i can,t be outgoing thtas realy hard for me to do

maybe they dont like how ur punk n all, or they don like ur personality. maybe they jus think ull turn them out. how bout instead of them askin u out u ask them out?

i can,t ask them out they always say no

It sounds to me like you need to be a little more self confident. I'm sure not all guys are turned off by your 'dark' look, maybe just a little intimidated by it. What I'm failing to say is for others to like you, you need to like yourself. No matter how pessimistic you are.

how can i like my self if i don,t like my self ?? i have been the biggest pessamist i know for ever i am not very pretty i never were skirts or even shorts i hate my body

well i'm a guy and i think if you are internally and externally beautiful then your the perfect girl it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks except for what you think about yourself if you think your ugly guys are gonna think your ugly if you think tour hot guys are gonna think tour hot it's all about confidence trust me.

i can,t think i am hot tho

Alot of it is stopping the negative self talk even if you agree with what you think about yourself. Don't allow yourself to put you down in your mind.

ok u confused the hell out of me u lost me at the beggineing

Alot of it is stopping the negative self talk even if you agree with what you think about yourself. Don't allow yourself to put you down in your mind.

Agreed. Alot of that sends out negative vibes toward guys, and sometimes you just have to get up the courage to flirt/talk to them. Once you do it, it won't be so hard.

they always say no so i just stoped

and i mean i don,t wanna be single but it seems no one wants to be with me

You're a man. Flirt with a homosexual male.

no i am a chick

All the guys I know are not into the whole punk look. But I'm sure there are guys that like you.

I cant see how anyone could dress like that anyway, i think it looks kinda butch.

well i am not a dyke i ussaly just were black and the shirts like the band tee,s ya know and jeans and my hair up and my make up dark i mean thats noy dykeish at all

ugly me

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Low self estime(sp?)

Lisa

^ if you thought you were so ugly you would not post a pic on here. I think you are just fishing for compliments.

u know what ur just jeulous of her cuz shes pretty! :rolleyes:

WHAT THE HELL. REREAD THAT POST, BECAUSE I THINK THAT YOU TOOK IT WRONG....

Low self estime(sp?)

Lisa

its esteem

umm i am not wanting complaments ok so shut up about that ... and i posted it to show ppl that i am ugly ok

guys probally do like you. you just dont know it

wickedangel can you stop useing a comma , find this on your keyboard '.. eg. don,t changed to don't

umm i am not wanting complaments ok so shut up about that ... and i posted it to show ppl that i am ugly ok


Cussing already? Why would you want to show people you're ugly?

Why are you thinking about what guys think, when you can't even think straight about yourself?

ok i am just wondering why guys dont like me i mean i am a punk rocker chick i almost always wear black i wear dark make up dark clothes i am a fun person to be around and i realy cant seem to find a guy so can you maybe help me pretty pls and thank u

if u need a pic of me just ask i will post one ..

Dark clothes and dark makeup tends to scare guys off. They think you're like goth and depressed. Not many guys are into that kinda stuff. And you look a little boy-ish. I think you should try to take care of yourself a little better and maybe try to look a LITTLE BIT girly....

what do u mean girly .. i don,t look boy ish at all just because i never smile is that why ... like ok girly what do u mean i am sorry i already said that but me girly ha yea rignt can u explain

its esteem



Hmm thank you.

Lets just say Ive always been better at math than spelling.

Lisa

it sounds like you have no confidence.. and guys like a girl who is confident about herself and doesnt care what she looks like or acts like.. she can just be herself

You seem cool In ur pics I couldent see you becaeuse there was a pic of a racoon.

Dark clothes and dark makeup tends to scare guys off. They think you're like goth and depressed. Not many guys are into that kinda stuff. And you look a little boy-ish. I think you should try to take care of yourself a little better and maybe try to look a LITTLE BIT girly....

I don't know if its the whole "goth thing". There are alot of "goths" in my school and they are very pretty and have no trouble getting good boyfriends. And i agree with whoever said you shouldn't say negative things like that all the time.

Sometimes guys don't like a gurl without any reasons,i think.

you just havent found the right guy yet, guys are attracted to diff. types of girls, and not all guys are going to like you, but if you go to guys with low self esteem, they aren't going to want to mess with that. style has nothing to do with it, if you arewho you are someone wil eventually like you for who you are, but dont put yourself down because everyone is beautiful in their own way and sooner or later a guy will see that, and you should always see that. just look in the mirror and say "wow, i'm hot" work on your self esteem!

ugly me

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i c a very scary cat...is that you?!

mabey becuz of ur luv in waring black they might think ur creepy no afend u or any think try waring other colors! but u dont have to be a gurly gurl and try some light make up : :rolleyes: :D

wow so sorryy it took for ever i forgot about this post but any ways idk what to do i now have a bf have now for about 3 mounths almost 4 but he wants me to wear skirts and all that crap but idk i still feel very unconfident

i dont see why they dont like me iether... i am tall, with brown long hair, people say i am pretty and guys from other skools love me but no one at my own skool pays any atention to me at all... whats up with these lame guys?