okay I have had this problem for a very long time and I think its time to get rid of it, I now have long hair I would say its about half way down my back. and I normally have it down or in a pony tail but I would like to kick it up a bit.
any ideas?

curl it

get some layers put in it.

I would suggest getting it cut to shoulder/just below the shoulder length so that way you will still have some length.

I dont know what else.

thats no good because I am trying to grow it out so I have some to donate to wigs for kids.

thats no good because I am trying to grow it out so I have some to donate to wigs for kids.
but thanks anyway